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Anyone who has been married knows that marriage calls for tremendous sacrifices too. They just happen to be different sacrifices.On one hand, the diaconate is a valid step of Holy Orders. Some people may be called to part of it, but not to all of it.
On the other hand, I often wonder if the permanent diaconate diminishes the value of the priesthood in the eyes of the laity. We need priests- badly. In some places, 10 years from now will be too late. Deacons will not help those places much. We need priests. The permanent diaconate is no substitute for the priesthood, and I think it is often seen as such. Men who feel called to some sort of ministry don’t have to make a choice- they can get married and be a deacon, rather than make a sacrifice and choose between marriage and the priesthood. I think, in that sense, the permanent diaconate diminishes the concept of sacrifice.
I would not get particualrly worried about those who have odd ideas about the diaconate, or see it as diminishing priesthood in some way, as they are functionally illiterate as to Church matters; they know little of scripture, little of the sacramental theology of the Church. Obviously they need more information and need to be taught. But they have problems with it? That is their problem, not the Church’s except for a duty to instruct.
And as to the issue of choosing between being married and a deacon, or being a priest, there are those who feel called to both vocations; just as there are those who feel called to the two vocations of celibacy and priesthood. As it is the Church which has decided that for the Roman rite, the only ones who can be both married and then ordained are those who convert, life is tough. But to presume that anyone who is called to priesthood is automatically called to the vocation of celibacy is to misunderstand the term vocation. Those who are called to priesthood and answer that call (except for converts) must and will be celibate even though they may not have a calling to it; they have a duty to it.