Haha…I thought you meant the other PMS! It made me a bit confused. Sorry!because I won’t engage in PMS. I mean it’s like you’re a freak or something. I don’t even want to date anymore because the lack of respect I get. I mean whatever happened to just getting to know someone. It just seems to be all about one thing these days. This is directed at both men and women. What do you think true for you too or not?
These people haven’t found God in their heart. Lots haven’t. You have. No need to give up on dating. Just maybe try and find people who have similar values to you in a a Catholic setting. There is Church (not mine, most of the men are like sunny side of 75yrs old), there are Catholic single dating sites. The WYD08 site has a singles group xt3.com/, don’t know how old you are but there are Catholic Youth Groups and Catholic young adults groups. There are a lot of half baked Catholics so no guarantee you will find everyone in these groups who holds the same values as you do, but you might find you have better chance if you try and find a Catholic who’s really found God if you move in the area of where more Catholics congregate. I am sure others can give you tips on where to meet Catholics.because I won’t engage in PMS. I mean it’s like you’re a freak or something. I don’t even want to date anymore because the lack of respect I get. I mean whatever happened to just getting to know someone. It just seems to be all about one thing these days. This is directed at both men and women. What do you think true for you too or not?
awwwwww…i really hope someday…that will happen to me!
You’re very lucky then. My experience has almost been the complete opposit. I’ve only dated two guys that didn’t bring the subject up…one who later up became a priest and another who has some issues I still don’t know about plaguing him (never dated him long enough to find out what those issues were).
It’s hard to tell a guys moral charactor sometimes until you actually gotten to know him. I’ve dated a few from Christian sites that were pretty much the same as the guys on the secular sites. It can be lonely, doing the right thing–but God sees everything we do, and nothing we do, goes in vain. I was dumped a lot during my dating years because I wouldn’t engage in PMS. I knew that those men were not the right ones, then. My husband when we dated, was happy to wait. He also had changed his ways, and wanted someone who shared the same view.because I won’t engage in PMS. I mean it’s like you’re a freak or something. I don’t even want to date anymore because the lack of respect I get. I mean whatever happened to just getting to know someone. It just seems to be all about one thing these days. This is directed at both men and women. What do you think true for you too or not?
It will… as soon as you stop thinking about it and make other plans.
Speaking from the late 80s early 90s here… around Catholics and other “good” Christians I didn’t know anyone who hadn’t had PMS personally… wait I take that back. I knew one female (and I went to a religious, Methodist, school). I could quote you probably a thousand secular psych studies (and a few religious ones) at the time “proving” it was an outdated taboo…because I won’t engage in PMS. I mean it’s like you’re a freak or something. I don’t even want to date anymore because the lack of respect I get. I mean whatever happened to just getting to know someone. It just seems to be all about one thing these days. This is directed at both men and women. What do you think true for you too or not?
I’m from the same time period, and except for a few of my very close friends, I absolutely agree.
Thanks everyone for your interesting responses. I’m just frustrated with the world I guess. I’m taking myself off the market and guess that I’ll just have to get used to living a single life. I’m not willing to compromise my morals and it’s really too late for me to change and start sleeping around. Even if I was into that sort of thing I’d most likely have to date someone for several months the going rate these days seems to 4 or 5 dates then the roll in the hay senario. 
I have noticed it has become like some sort of I don’t know trend?? It’s ridiculous the peer pressure involved as well…Many have fallen and many will but as long as you keep to your commitment and your love for GOD who cares about what they say or think!! You are blessed and will be blessed even more when you find the right one!!because I won’t engage in PMS. I mean it’s like you’re a freak or something. I don’t even want to date anymore because the lack of respect I get. I mean whatever happened to just getting to know someone. It just seems to be all about one thing these days. This is directed at both men and women. What do you think true for you too or not?
Women around here are typically not absolutely opposed to premarital sex, although they will not try to lead to a single encounter. Most will probably be able to live without it until married and to marry without “finding out” first. However, I’m not strong enough to get over the fact that a person would normally be sexually active but is not only because of me, so I would normally not have a relationship with a sexually active person, barring any indication of change. This might be different if I had tremendous respect for the person for some other reasons.because I won’t engage in PMS. I mean it’s like you’re a freak or something. I don’t even want to date anymore because the lack of respect I get. I mean whatever happened to just getting to know someone. It just seems to be all about one thing these days. This is directed at both men and women. What do you think true for you too or not?