To all who have divorced

[Polluted]

I want to say how much I feel for you. I really do, especially when children are involved there are few things in life worse than the tragedy of divorce. Even if there was an annulment granted, the pain one feels from such a tragic event can be astounding, and I can’t even imagine how some of you must feel who gave it your all, only to see your world in ruins after years of effort. To be separated from your children and to have your dream of a happy matrimony crushed by Satan then to be left alone to pick up the pieces.

Take it from me as a man who has suffered physical torture. Beaten until my face was horribly disfigured, had my hands bound then beaten some more. Had my body shocked over and over, then had a weapon used to beat me again and ahain …followed by being mocked by the assailants.

Nothing compares to the pain I feel being separated from my son and the psychological horror one feels from having his heart and soul ripped away from him while God gives the green light for such a horrible occurance (whatever his reason may be). And I wasn’t even married! How aweful it must be for any of you that actually did things the correct way within God’s law.

No matter what though, don’t lose faith. I’m still in Church every Sunday and you should be too. Follow God to the depths of hell if that’s where he’s gonna take you and vow to continue until your passing. Even when your own mind breaks down and the only thing one feels is anger and confusion towards him with no comfort whatsoever. Keep going. Stay by his side. Even when those around you say “look where God has lead you!” Keep walking right beside him. Even when there is what seems a barren waste land ahead with no water in sight, don’t turn towards a life empty of his presence.

I pray our spiritual Mother comforts you and while you bleed out the toxicity that occurs from divorce.

Hail mary, full of grace the lord is with thee, blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death Amen

 

[Mardi_M]

I’m saddened that you have endured so much physical and emotional trauma and loss, including the loss of your son.
God bless you for your courage in faith against such odds, and God bless you for desiring to be an instrument of encouragement and faith.
May God continue to help you even though some wounds you carry doubtless sometimes feel re-opened and as intense as when the events occurred, and whenever you think of your child. May God bless and protect your son.

May God embrace you, and all who have suffered and will suffer the things you shared with us.

 

[tawny]

Praying for your intentions.

 

[AnyFriendofGod]

I said a Hail Mary for you, too. Divorce is a horrible thing, and children outside marriage is so complicated. I saw it recently referred to as “the wages of sin is life” because in spite of sin, God choses to give the gift of life. Nothing is better than that gift. I pray that God shows you a way with your son. I said a Hail Mary for you. May you see a great miracle.