Trying to move on

[basilisk]

I still really miss my ex

And this is where you need to discern. Go out, meet people. Make friends. When you find a girl you want to date, ask yourself this: Do I want her as a girlfriend just to have SOMEONE because I miss my ex and am lonely? Or do I want her as a girlfriend because HER unique qualities attract me and make me want to know more about her?

When you can honestly answer that, then you will know if it’s too soon for dating, or if you are ready. Good luck.

 

[Bulldawg]

And this is where you need to discern. Go out, meet people. Make friends. When you find a girl you want to date, ask yourself this: Do I want her as a girlfriend just to have SOMEONE because I miss my ex and am lonely? Or do I want her as a girlfriend because HER unique qualities attract me and make me want to know more about her?

When you can honestly answer that, then you will know if it’s too soon for dating, or if you are ready. Good luck.

Thanks. Tomorrow I am going to talk to a priest at church (He’s my spiritual director). I am going to wait and talk to him before I do anything else.