Trying to stay strong after Stillbirth

[john_ks]

Thank you all for your loving support and prayers. This has been the struggle of ours lives. We are broken people most days. Some days are easier than others, but the pain persists and the devil constantly makes us play the what-if and blame games. I have felt so much anger and sadness in this process. I know my sweet Noah Flynn had a perfect plan for his life. It is just so hard to understand and comprehend through my eyes. To me, his life was too short. I should be seeing him open presents this year, but instead we will have a single candle burning amongst his urn and belongings, while celebrating his birth to Heaven with a balloon release. It is just so sad. I thank you all for your links to the support groups, sharing your stories and for giving me hope that I can pass on to my wife and other son when he is older. I do believe he is in Heaven, I sometimes can almost feel his presence telling me he’s ok. I am thankful for God’s grace, and that it extends to my child and yours. I am so sorry for each and every one of you who has had to travel this same road.

May peace be with you all,
John_KS

John, God created life, and gave you and your wife the beautiful gift of being able to pass His life on to new little people. Satan created death when he coaxed us all into sinning.

It was God’s design that you would always have Noah with you! At your most basic level you know you were created to be together, forever in a loving relationship. Unfortunately there is a war going on for souls. A jealous, hateful being doesn’t want you to be happy, and live with God in Heaven. He created sin, disease, and death, and then blames it all on God! Yet God has, and is, over coming this hideous death. Jesus will come again to establish a new Heaven & new Earth where we will never be separated again!

Some have had visions of Mary in Heaven with all the babies laughing, and singing with them till they can be reunited with their families. Noah is with his Heavenly family, but he longs for you to join him someday. You & your wife have created this lovely little man. He is a blessing to all of us. The world is a better place because Noah is in it. Noah is eternal! He still has a good & wonderful purpose. Maybe it is to pray you into Heaven. Find a way, through your tears, to celebrate Noah this Christmas. God bless you my friend.

 

[lily22]

I would use your loss to glorify God in some way. Maybe, write a book or use it as a way to show how important life is. I know, from experience more than 3 times, how hard it is to lose a baby.