Unfit to be Godmother

[dill1]

Looking for advice, as I can’t seem to find answers anywhere that help my specific situation:

I was named godmother for my baby cousin a few months ago. I was very excited to be asked to help raise my cousin in the Catholic Church, so I didn’t see any reason to decline the position. However, months after the baptism I wonder if I am unfit to be a good spiritual guide. I am not yet 20 years old, and I still feel like I have a lot to learn about my own faith. I love my cousin very much and I want what’s best for him. I do not intend to shirk my responsibilities as a godparent, but I worry that I am not good enough.

Please leave any words of advice, or thoughts. Thank you.

 

[Brendea]

Do not worry about not being old enough to be a Godmother, whilst your still learning about faith yourself it could actually be a good thing and if anyone had any doubt they would not have asked you.

As you grow in faith so will your God son/ God daughter

 

[Smurfie]

Grow in faith with your God daughter/son

 

[LaughingBoy1503]

I think it’s a good sign that you feel unworthy. It means you take the role of godmother seriously.

I would go ahead and do it and actively seeking to grow in knowledge of our faith and grow closer to God so that you can help your godchild when the time comes to help them.

 

[poche]

There is nobody who can’t learn something new about the Catholic Faith.

 

[Mintaka]

As long as you are a baptized Catholic who is not living a life of crime or scandal, you are qualified. Being young means you are less likely to die while the kid needs you.

Talk to the Holy Spirit. He will help you become wise.

 

[dollysro]

I think just the fact that you are giving this so much thought says a lot about you–you’re going to be GREAT!

 

[midori]

I had a boss once say, “People are like bananas. They’re always changing. Either they’re green and growing, or they’re yellow and turning brown.”

Like bananas, people have trouble existing in a holding pattern. You’re working actively to grow closer to God. That’s great! What better kind of example could you give your godchild?

 

[Allegra]

So, you just have to be a confirmed Catholic in good standing with the Church. You don’t have to be a trained catechist or anything like that.

 

[Anesis]

I wish all of the godparents I spoke with cared as much as you. The fact that your faith matters and that you want to do a good job is exactly what a godparent should be

 

[Anicette]

You Can ses that on a positive way.

Your cousin IS a Baby. You will grow un faith top and learn more to fit IS need. It will become a growing processus for you both.

 

[KateriCatholic]

I was chosen as a godmother for my little sister when I was 18. I find that it is most important to keep up your own faith life and have a close relationship with the godchild. Then, when they are older, I think it will be important to be an example of faith for them, be open to their questions, and discuss their faith with them. I am still learning too. The fact that you are concerned says a lot. I think you will be a great godmother. Being young won’t hinder you if you strengthen your faith and love your cousin.