I read a lot about this matter. Neutral commentary as well as views form both sides of the fence. I will tell you now, as honestly as I can, with hand on heart, that most of the spit and venom is coming from people with your views.
What we have are sporadic problems with gay activists, and I use the term advisedly, stepping over the line. They are not representative of the views of ‘the mob’, as you call them. The views of the (increasing) majority of people are relatively benign. That is not to say they have put no thought into the matter. Constant Christian complaints about it have ensured that it is almost impossible not to have thought about it.
And there, as I have said before, is your problem. The more you bring up the subject, the more you rail against it, the more people become more informed about it. And people realise…there’s really no problem. Your complaints that they are just a mob, that these people are sheep, that there has been no thought gone into this, is so far off the mark as to be considered as sour grapes.