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Jennifoo
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They’re not articulating it well but I think the problem is that such devices can be an opportunity for scandal. When you see someone holding up a missal you know they are reading THE missal. … but when someone is on their phone they could be playing a game, texting, browsing the internet… anything, really, and there’s no way to know with one quick glance. This could lead to people making unfair judgments about the phone user and thus scandal!
BUT instead of teaching people they mustn’t use their handheld device as a missal, I think it would be better to teach people NOT TO JUDGE UNFAIRLY.
I take notes during Mass and people have presumed I was doodling, writing letters, etc. They judged unfairly, when in fact I was taking notes so I could remember the homily later (when I needed to remember it). Because these same people approached me I was able to clear up the misconception buyot how would I have felt if I’d noticed them glaring at me because I DARED to do something as unconventional as PAY ATTENTION to the homily! GASP/
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Well said! I have taken notes at Mass occasionally. I find it to be very helpful in keeping my focus. If I’ve ever been misjudged I don’t know as no one has ever said anything.
I have been misjudged about other things and snubbed. I don’t even know why I was snubbed as they never bothered to tell me. I sometimes wonder why giving people the benefit of the doubt went out of style. I also wonder why people are inclined to judge negatively as opposed to trying to look for the good in others. Sad, yes.