Valid confession/absolution

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It’s good to be home. Please spare a prayer for my perseverance in faith.
Done. I will also try to remember you again when I do a holy hour but at least it is done now.
This is exactly how my first confession after over 10 years went. I cried and cried, but couldn’t get only get a few details out. It certainly wasn’t a comprehensive and complete confession. The priest welcomed me home, absolved me, and I continued forward in my walk with our Lord, completely at peace about my confession. .

Years later, I discovered Catholic Answers, and a bunch of people who told me that, even though I had been absolved, I need to confess those sins at my next confession. I struggled with this for years, because I had been completely healed of my past and been absolved. I finally asked an Opus Dei priest about it in Confession because I was so bothered by this. He reminded me of the story of the Prodigal Son: the son had a speech he was going to give his father - “I have sinned against you and against God…” The father didn’t even allow him to get the words out, but embraced him and forgave him. The priest assured me that there was no need for me to continually bring up the past, but that I could confess those sins if it were helpful to me. I have been, once again, at peace. If you have doubts, by all means, talk to another priest. You will probably find yourself less emotional this time. If you don’t really want to bring it up again, I see no reason to do so.
A beautiful use of the Prodigal Son. I felt that in my heart. I will remember that for the future.
 
Done. I will also try to remember you again when I do a holy hour but at least it is done now.

Thank you.

A beautiful use of the Prodigal Son. I felt that in my heart. I will remember that for the future.
Agreed! The responses I have received have taught be so much. I have received not only answers but profound insight. Thank you all.
 
Sjays, I want to say I envy you, but then I would have to confess that. I wish my own journey back to the church would have been that simple. But God must have each of us on a different path. I just wanted to say that you have been blessed to have encountered a merciful and spiritual priest, who may have been Christ Himself there in the confessional with you. Don’t over analyze it, you went in with full desire to come clean and you were cleaned. Praise the Lord! Now go and don’t forget the graces bestowed onto you and help others who have been away too long that want to get back do so. Be merciful as God was merciful to you, pay it forward.
 
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