Very technical question on marital sexuality

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Primox said:
That was a lovely literary gambit about giving and taking… However, you are saying that by inhibiting hormonal, release you are taking. Reversing the premises, it reads as though, with mutual excitation, leading to hormonal release, mutual giving has occured - Which is why I say the explanation is incomplete. I’m just wordsmithing you know, I do think we’re basically on the same page. Think about it some 👍
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Someone has thought about it. Total sacrafice and self giving in marital relations is necessary for a prolonged purposeful relationship. Do you understand why the church is against contraception? Maturbation?

We don’t have a right to “sexual release” as our culture claims. We are granted a gift from God. We are to act responsively with that gift with the one that we are married to. Sex is a serious act. Not just for entertainment or selfish motives or even just to make babies.

Ever hear of Theology of the Body? Why are we male and female? Why is sex ‘reserved’ for marriage? Why is it wrong to contracept? Why are there restrictions on married sex? Why is masturbation wrong? Who gets hurt if we do these things? The answers are in the scripturally based TOB. Read about it. Listen about it. If you need pointers, let me know.
 
newbetx said:
Someone has thought about it. Total sacrafice and self giving in marital relations is necessary for a prolonged purposeful relationship. Do you understand why the church is against contraception? Maturbation?

We don’t have a right to “sexual release” as our culture claims. We are granted a gift from God. We are to act responsively with that gift with the one that we are married to. Sex is a serious act. Not just for entertainment or selfish motives or even just to make babies.

Ever hear of Theology of the Body? Why are we male and female? Why is sex ‘reserved’ for marriage? Why is it wrong to contracept? Why are there restrictions on married sex? Why is masturbation wrong? Who gets hurt if we do these things? The answers are in the scripturally based TOB. Read about it. Listen about it. If you need pointers, let me know.
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Yes, I know this. *see above
 
=Redbandito;5330493]If spouses were passionately kissing but chose to stop short of sexual act, would it be sinful?
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No, not as stated and both are in freewill agreement.

If however one of the spouses wants to stop and other does not, assuming, time, location Ect. allow proceeding, such an act if the parties are aware of this FACT, that we are to give ourselves freely and willinly when asked, unless there is grave and valid reasons not to.
qualifies as a Mortal Sin [if the 3 conditions of a MS are in place?]

1 Cor. 7: 3 "The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not rule over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not rule over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not refuse one another except perhaps by agreement for a season, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, lest Satan tempt you through lack of self-control".*

Love and prayers,
 
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