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OrbisNonSufficit
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Hello everyone. I was thinking about making this thread for a while now, because while I do assent that Eastern view of Matrimony must be correct, because One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church accepts it (and therefore, as Latin member of that Church, I am required to give assent), I can’t wrap my head around it. From what I have read and viewed, I must have misunderstood some key points because it seems contradictory to me (again, which it is not as it can not be). While I might question Eastern theology with this thread, it is not because I would view it as invalid but because I wish to ask questions to understand. I hope I will offend no one.
- Matrimony is Sacrament/Mystery, that lasts even after death.
- That means that any Marriage after the first one is essentially non-sacramental.
- Divorce has power to break down this sacrament, Eastern Church simply recognizes it’s effects and outcome, which is broken Marriage.
- If Non-Sacramental Marriage is allowed anyway, then after Marriage has broken down without death (a sin, but what was done is done), another Non-Sacramental Marriage may be provided for the faithful after penance.
- Four Marriages are maximum historically, according to Tradition of the East. This does not make difference between Marriage ended by death of spouse or divorce.
- Can Sacraments last in Heaven? Is Priest still Priest in Heaven? Are unbaptized not baptized in Heaven? Does Chrismation? And especially with Matrimony is of my concern, as Matthew 22:24-30 tells us that “At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.”. It seems to me that Sacraments work to bring us to Heaven, hence if we get there, their job is done. This might be just Latin theology though.
- This point presumes that Marriage can only be celebrated once. I do not quite understand why, as above passage from the Bible essentially says that there were 7 lawful and valid marriages and yet, not one of them was more valid or more valued. If Marriage really ceased to exist in Heaven, then there is no reason one Spouse is bound by it and other is not, as Marriage between one person can not last.
- I quite understand this point. It is different from Latin understanding but I do not think that is problematic in itself.
- Wouldn’t penance require to try and make right what was destroyed by sin (divorce) ? Perhaps I understand if one divorces his wife and she is not fine with it, and then through no fault of her own Mystery of Matrimony breaks down as described in point 3. However, why is this needed with death of a Spouse? As we believe God calls us to himself during death, so doing penance for our spouse being called seems little unnecessary.
- This is Eastern tradition, so I do not think there is anything that I can misunderstand about it. I would just like to know if anyone knows why 4 does that have historical significance or was that gradual development of Eastern theology?