There’s a difference between people who are in poverty through individual misfortune, versus generational poverty. Someone who sinks into poverty from former affluence might possibly, with God’s grace and hard work and good fortune, resume their previous position by the reacquisition of those resources (health, for example) they lost.
But generational poverty isn’t something that can be solved by throwing money at it. People are really, truly trapped— because it goes beyond environment, and is rooted in values, priorities, worldview, and the ability to function in a “socially acceptable” manner with the group of people you’re with.
DH and I come from a good middle-class upbringing. My grandparents were officers in the military. My dad is a rocket scientist. I was a librarian, and my husband is an attorney. His father was an engineer. His grandparents-- I’m not sure what their career was, but they didn’t have indoor plumbing.
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So we’ve got that generational upward-mobility established. We can function nicely with other middle-class people, but I know we’d break all sorts of unwritten rules if we tried running with Teresa Heinz’s circle of friends. Or Barron Hilton. Or the Kennedys, or the Bushes, or the Clintons, or the Carters…
The same thing is true with people in generational poverty. They’re just as foreign in their values, priorities, and decision-making as the most famous American dynasties are to me. For example— I had a pair of sisters who were making ends meet. They go off and spend $200 on an above-ground pool. Then they spend another $100 to fill it a few times over the course of a week… because they can’t be bothered to buy chlorine tabs to keep the water clean for more than 24 hours. They’re late with their $400 rent because they get hit by a big water bill. And the pool ends up with holes in the bottom by the end of the season, and I have to haul it off to the trash when they leave. I asked them why they didn’t just go to the municipal pool, where admission is $1 for kids and $2 for adults. They looked at me like I was crazy. Because people in “their” circle prioritized entertainment, and being able to host people and give them a good time, and being the center of activity. Money is something that disappears quickly, so spend it on something that will make you popular with your friends. But people in “my” circle prioritize fulfilling your obligations, working in your budget, etc., and if my friends want to go have a good time, why in the world would they expect me to provide it for them?
Another example is with food. People in poverty will ask, “Did you eat enough?” People in the middle-class don’t have to worry about quantity, so the question is usually, “Did it taste good?” And people in the upper-class know that both quantity and palatability are a given— so their questions are all about appearance and attractiveness, which is why you get all this talk about “plating” and “presentation” on chef shows.
If some great disaster wiped out everyone’s bank accounts tomorrow, so that everyone was on equal footing— you wouldn’t need five or ten years to see how people would be just as inequal as they are now. People trapped by generational poverty aren’t merely kept there by a superficial “lack of money”-- it has its roots in inner things, like values, priorities, life choices, habits, living by unwritten rules, and so on. They (speaking in generalities) have been brought up to handle resources differently, so until they are taught to handle resources like “we” do, it’s unlikely they will. Just like someone who was raised without a bedtime is unlikely to suddenly decide to keep a strict nighttime schedule and be in bed by 9 every night. Or like someone who was raised with paper plates and a 40-gallon trash can in the kitchen is unlikely to mop the floor and wash all the dishes after every meal. Some people have the insight and the fortitude to forcibly change themselves… but it’s a very, very difficult thing to reprogram yourself from how you’ve been raised.