What criminal charges, if any, can a man file against a woman who tries to force herself on him, etc?

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Hi Josh. You may find this book useful - “Games people play” by Eric Berne.
 
One may file a police report to get this on record. Criminal charges may or may not be filed. At minimum, this will be on the record in case their are future violations, and could serve to show a pattern of behavior that would be submitted to the courts. Before any criminal charges are filed, the police will tend to ask for a lie detector test to insure the veracity of the complainant.

Some years ago there was a young lady who was killed in New York by a young man who said she was groping him against his will, and his reaction to a particularly painful moment caused him to throw her, breaking her neck and killing her. He was charged with murder and acquitted. Your report could help protect someone from counter-charges of abuse by the female in this case if it triggers a violent reaction.
 
John21652 said:
And I don’t know where your thinking is at! I’m not sure you do either.

Pray, tell, what on earth has the Tuscon shooting got to do with a woman making a pass or three to her date? I’ll tell you - nothing. Absolutely nothing at all. And if a woman makes a pass or three at her date, unless she gets violent, there is absolutely no need to get either the police, or a lawyer involved. If it is the case that I’m stuck in the '80’s with this ‘macho man thing’, it is a far better place to be than in 2011 where you apparently need a lawyer to hold your hand after a date goes wrong. Like I said, If the man is not “man enough” to handle it himself and walk away, if need be, then he is not mature enough to be dating.

By the way, the word you needed in your third sentence was ‘ludicrous’, not ‘ludicrist’.

Cheers.
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I’m not going to go back and forth with you on this because you are so caught up in this mocho man thing that its sickening. You seem not to know what a example is and how avoiding something can become something bigger. So stay in your mocho world, God bless and have a good day. Then I quess you have never been or ever will go on a date.

Oh by the way thanks for the spelling correction.
 
Just say, “I’m in a committed relationship.”

[You don’t have to say that your relationship is with Jesus.]
 
Monte_RCMS said:
Just say, “I’m in a committed relationship.”

[You don’t have to say that your relationship is with Jesus.]
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Or you can say, “I’m a practicing Catholic. Would you like to come to church with me? I will give you a tour of our cathedral. Here, let me give you some literature from Catholic Answers. Take my rosary; say it every day. Here is a crucifix; look at it every day; pin it up in your cubicle. Here is an application for the Franciscans for the Renewal; you could be a sister.”

Go on line to “Confraternity of the Precious Blood”; get a copy of “My Daily Bread” and keep it with you at all times and read it when you have a chance. If some woman gets a little too frisky with you, then give her the book and tell her how important it is to you and that you want to share it with her and that she should read from it each day. Ask her to just open it to a page, any page.
 
TBolt1000T said:
I’m not sure if this is the right forum for this, but here goes. Does anyone know what criminal charges, if any, that a man could file on a woman who makes sexual advances toward him on a date, is asked to stop, but continues to touch the man in an inappropriate way, etc, if there is no intercourse? Thanks.
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You don’t file any, the government prosecutor’s office decides which charges, if any, are appropriate. You could file a complaint with the police … but… why???
 
If you are in danger of being raped, do whatever you need to in order to escape the situation and live.

If not, I wouldn’t advise calling the police station. I know cops. They might not wait to hang up the phone before they start laughing at you.

If you lived in an Islamic sharia law zone, you could have her stoned to death.
 
Actually it’s a missed opportunity for evangelization. So many women in this day and age are treated as casual sex outlets by men, they come to believe that’s what they are, and that’s what they must offer to compete with other men. So they behave in shocking ways. What if you spoke to her about being a precious daughter of God with too much dignity to act like that? It might melt her heart.
 
TBolt1000T said:
I’m not sure if this is the right forum for this, but here goes. Does anyone know what criminal charges, if any, that a man could file on a woman who makes sexual advances toward him on a date, is asked to stop, but continues to touch the man in an inappropriate way, etc, if there is no intercourse? Thanks.
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I don’t know of many women who can overpower a man, so I wonder why a man wouldn’t just leave.

If she continues harassment, that is called STALKING. That is a crime. If you call the police and report an attempted rape or sexual assault you will probably be laughed at. It’s not fair and it’s not right but that’s the way it is right now. Hopefully in the future men and women will be taken seriously.

My cousin (female) was inappropriately “fondled” (it was more than that but I don’t know the proper word to use). She ran away from the man, found a police officer and told him what was going on. Her pantyhose were ripped. Her clothes were disheveled.

The police officer laughed at her.

I think if she had been male, that police officer would have been rolling on the ground while laughing hysterically.
 
rev_kevin said:
Do you know what a example is? Can you not see that is what I was doing when I used the pot smoker and bubble blower? Then you say that I must save the male species for one rapacious female, this statement is ludicrist thinking on your part. You miss the points of what I and others are saying to you because you seem to be stuck in the 80’s with this “mocho man” thing. You say that I’m making assumption about this female which you’re correct but what if my assumption is correct about her and nothing was done and she went futher then just touching? Now seem to not like people making assumptions about this by you are doing the same thing by assuming that she will get a criminal record because of this, but chances are she would only be talked to by the police and nothing more. Now I’m going to give another example here, its only a example. Its a example of people not saying something when they see or have a strange feeling about someone. What happened in Tuson. People knew something was wrong with that young man and assumed something like what happened would happen. Now nobody said anything and look what happened or they did say something and nobody took it seriously. You just can’t say “be a man and just walk away” and then make lite of the situation by saying “unless of course she overpowered you.” That is something only someone with no heart would say. You seem to be condoning the actions of this female and making lite of the man. I don’t know where your priorities are?
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What’s a “mocho man?”
 
TBolt1000T said:
Thanks to everyone who has responded.
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Josh, I’ve read the responses to the OP and I don’t think your question was answered very well by most posters. Like some others I would suggest that you call an attorney and simply ask.

We’re not allowed to give legal advice on CAF. IMO you need to speak to an attorney, perhaps one that specializes in cases such as the one you described.I noticed that you live in the U.S. I’m sure laws vary from state to state. I’ve consulted with attorneys a few times. I’ve never been charged for an initial consultation.

Good luck to you. It’s sad that people have to defend themselves from unwanted advances.
 
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