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IwishIknew
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Your definition of “suffering” is not wrong, but mine is not wrong either, but mine is the broader definition. That said, a more accurate word I should have used is “sacrifice”. And believe me - parenting with Christian Love, Patience and Joy many children involves tremendous sacrifices: from the strains of continuous annoyances to the strains of ensuring they are properly fed, housed, clothed and educated (spiritually, physically, mentally, morally). It is a 14 hour-a-day, 7-day a week endless list of sacrificial giving.
And this is NOT a complaint - it is chosen by us to accept this and be open to life because we trust in God’s promise to feed even His birds. Christ regularly appears to his Saints emphasizing his sacrifices - not to complain - but to let them know that out of love He chose this sacrifice willingly.
I think you ignorantly sit in your pompous proverbial arm-chair and try to slide around this truth out of pride - for the sake of condescension. Either that or you suffer from utter ignorance. Either way, when you mock or downplay someone’s true pains you hit people’s buttons - so be aware of this in future discussions.