There is a downtown church that has Eucharistic Adoration daily until 5 PM, followed by Mass. Confessions are also heard between 4 and 5 PM. Believe me, only a middle aged sense of decorum peppered with a little arthritis prevents me from doing a couple of back flips and yelling, “Whoot! Whoot!” (apparently, the modern day version of “Hosanna!”)
I go to Adoration at least a couple of times a week after work, and stay for Mass. These are the times I can be assured of spending some time with Jesus and adore Him for His own sake, without interference from any one of a number of temporal demands.
I do the double genuflect, and go to my pew. I do my early evening Examen, ask His forgiveness for the venial junk sins that I manage to commit despite my efforts, and read vespers (silently) from the Liturgy of the Hours app I have on my phone. I might pray the rosary, or the chaplet of Divine Mercy. I entrust people who are dear to me to His guiding care, and pray for the Church Militant as well as the Church Suffering.
If circumstances seem to require it, I may go to confession and complete my penance before Mass. Also, if it has been a particularly stressful day, I tell Jesus all about it (silently, of course,) ask His advice and blessings, and ask Him to help me see the blessings in my life, the appreciation of which can sometimes elude me. I thank Him for His peace, His blessings, and His love, and ask Him to help me love Him more and more. I ask Him, at the end of my time, what He would have me do next. I try to listen for His voice in my heart.
By this time the priest has gone to the altar and is holding the monstrance, with which he makes the Sign of the Cross over all of us assembled. At this particular church it is a silent benediction, meaning we don’t sing Tantum Ergo, Holy God, We Praise Thy Name, or recite the Divine Praises. I’m considering making a couple of mp3s, and listening to them on my bluetooth (which wouldn’t disturb anyone else.) Mass starts a few minutes after this. I almost always stay for Mass, by the way, in fact, I can’t remember the last time I left right after Benediction, and the only reasons I leave after Mass is 1) the church closes after Mass, and 2) I have to get home and feed and let out the dog. Left to my own devices, and with the availability, I could easily see myself there for several hours.
I’ve been doing this for a couple of years now, and these times are the high point of my week. In very secular terms, I think of Adoration as happy hour with Jesus. And I feel downright cheated when something prevents me from getting there at least a couple of times during the week! I am deeply grateful that Adoration is available daily at this one particular church, which really is only a couple of miles out of my way on a fifty-mile round-trip commute. In fact, I feel downright spoiled!