What do I send back? Do I send anything at all?

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A quick background: DH has an Aunt, whom I respect and very much like, although only met her once in person (she home-birthed a whole bunch of kidlets when it was even less popular than today – 70’s and 80’s – I love it! Thank goodness too because I received no flack from MIL on my home birth choices since she was already familiar). Another thing is she recently lost her husband in a horrific motorcycle accident. If I had the news link I would share it, but it’s been a few years. Anyway…

Growing up DH was often told when visiting Aunt and Uncle, but it was the UNCLE who said it: “such a shame we wont be seeing you in Heaven Ian, considering you have not received the WORD.” DH was raised atheist. That hurt and confused him. He was also from Michigan, this family is living in TN, basically some bible-belt type stuff. Back to the aunt, who has always been cool and respectful to her atheist sister and her nephew…

One of her children, a daughter, occasionally sends us Christmas cards. She graduated high school, got married right away, had a few babies. Once every two-three years she sends us a card. We just got a card.

DH opened it (I noticed the name and state and said “hey this is from your cousin, you should open it”) and plucks out a tract to which he rolls his eyes and kinda flicks towards me. He then pulls out a picture-Christmas card of the family and a small ripped piece of notebook paper that says we can follow her family’s adventures at a blog.

I was like :eek: ! WHAT??

I call MIL to ask if she got the same tract (not the cool cartoon ones that tell you you’re going to hell and that the Pope is the Anti-Christ, no, way different) and if they know we are Catholic and are trying to evangelicalize (sp?) us. She said she got it and just threw the tract in the trash without reading. She also said “I didn’t complain that you were catholic, but I might have mentioned it.” She good-natured “blames” me for DH being Catholic:rolleyes: , but she’s a good soul and never made a federal case out of the situation.

She also said: “What are you gonna do Kace? It’s the South! You can’t expect anything else sometimes. Here’s the weird thing – they don’t even go to CHURCH. Only Bible Study on Sunday. Don’t you think that’s kinda weird? I do! But no, I don’t think they know you’re Catholic.”

Back to the tract at hand – I interviewed (ok challenged, and got a few god swipes right back:D ) a couple of protestant friends on the theology mentioned. They both seemed to agree it was Pentecostal in nature. They also agreed the part on baptism was completely out of scriptural context. The whole thing is color-coded to explain the theology, i.e: black being KJV of the bible. Green: Israel’s program. Blue: Ours/Gentiles program, Brown= divisions/differences, Purple=Books of the Bible, Grey=commentary.

I’ll not bore you with the how to break up scripture as to 'how it applies to us and how it applies to the State of Israel" but will quote the following flow-chart on baptism:

WATER AND SPIRITUAL BAPTISM

Water baptism, for, the remission (:eek: ) of sins (Mark 1:4, Mark 16:16, Acts 2:38) was required. Jesus Baptized the believing remnant of Israel **with the Holy Ghost **(Mark 1:8, Acts 1:5) and they all spoke in tongues. (Acts 2: 1-6)

Which flow charts into:

Only One (Spiritual) Baptism

We have one baptism (Eph 4:5) , which is spiritual (Col 2:12). We are baptized into Christ’s Death (Rom 6:3,4; Gal 2:20) God’s Spirit baptizes us into the body of Christ (1Cor 12:13). Paul was sent NOT to water baptize (1 Cor 1:17)

Oh and the whole doctrine can be found at www.magnifiedword.com if you are bored enough or are simply inclined.

So tell me guys, I am feeling compelled to send something back. Not to be spiteful, not to think I might completely change her tune (and rudeness of sending anyone this nonsense which I realize she actually believes) not to be an eye for an eye gal. Surely someone knows a tiny bit of info already squeezed onto paper that makes people question faith. Not like what was super-condensed onto this leaflet. Links please!

One friend said I should simply send a prayer card – but I think there must be better stuff out there to send back.🤷 I will send something back, but I want it to be Catholic of nature – any easy suggestions?
 
I personally would just ditch it, but know the feeling of wanting to strike back.
I’ll wait to see if anyone suggests anything good to send. (I may need the backup for the future, my Mom is always getting in digs about my converting.)
 
Hi KCtheMommy! I wonder if you could respectfully ask them not to send their tracts, saying you’re delighted to hear from them, but just as you will respect their religious beliefs you kindly ask them to respect yours?

You mightn’t want them want them either sending their tracts to your children or greeting your children in the same unChristian way they greeted your husband. That could be the progression if they continue to try to evangelize your family…

Anyway, I hope you work it out. It sounds a bit tricky.

God bless your family!
 
Send them a link to landoverbaptist.org landoverbaptist.org/ (it’s supposed to be parody but it’s quite horrifying and in VERY bad taste), when I clicked on the magnifiedword site its front page just reminded me of it…:eek:

Be prepared if you click the link.

Yes I have a vindictive mind…:tsktsk: I know it’s not turning the other cheek, but you may never hear from them again…
 
You could always send them a copy of Pillar of Fire, Pillar of Truth, available from the CA website. I think a single booklet is only a buck (don’t know about shipping). You might be prepared for a “mail war” if you do that though.😃
 
You could always send them a copy of Pillar of Fire, Pillar of Truth, available from the CA website. I think a single booklet is only a buck (don’t know about shipping). You might be prepared for a “mail war” if you do that though.😃
Now that’s what I am talking about! What’s the premise of Pillar of Fire? It sounds good. I don’t mind spending $1.
 
Forgot to mention - your parish may have some of these booklets available to pick up. Might want to check that out next time you’re at mass, or call the church office.
 
Sorry for my long original post. I have never met this girl before, (just her mom) and I don’t think my husband has seen her for 15 years or so.

This tract is really something else though, so full of bad information for anyone! It’s like they tried to cram in 500 pages of theology, written in code/some scripture/color coding and odd “bolding,” as to be misleading, onto a tri-fold. LOL

Again, not trying to be spiteful, but I want to respond in kind. She’s trying to open our eyes to see her “truth,” I figured it’s only polite to send back ours. 😃 You are right Shane, it could turn into a mail war, but at the same time, she might learn something. Or she might simply think “Oh yeah, Ian and KC, think I’ll leave the tract out of their Christmas Card lest I get back more Catholic stuff.” 👍

So I’ll check out the booklet suggested and probably order it. Send it back. If the mom’s get involved I suspect my MIL is just going to say “You know sis, don’t mess with Kace, she’ll defend her faith.” My MIL will probably find this whole thing very funny, being an atheist and all. 😛

I’ll let you know how it turns out. 👍

Oh and yes, I am going to write a lovely note telling her how beautiful her family is, because they are. 🙂
 
catholic.com/library/Pillar.asp

See if this is what you’re looking for.
That’ll work. The tract she sent focuses HEAVILY on Israel. HEAVILY.

I think just this being included in Pillar of Fire will work to our advantage:
He guided the Israelites on their escape from Egypt by giving them a pillar of fire to light their way across the dark wilderness (Exod. 13:21). Today he guides us through his Catholic Church.
Wouldn’t it be cool if she started investigating and inquiring about our church? That would be so AWESOME! 👍
 
Can’t wait to hear how it goes! Hey, you never know - they might have a change of heart. However, they are Southerners, like myself, and we think we’re right about everything!😃 😃
 
Send them a link to landoverbaptist.org landoverbaptist.org/ (it’s supposed to be parody but it’s quite horrifying and in VERY bad taste), when I clicked on the magnifiedword site its front page just reminded me of it…:eek:

Be prepared if you click the link.

Yes I have a vindictive mind…:tsktsk: I know it’s not turning the other cheek, but you may never hear from them again…
I’ve SEEN THAT! It’s hilarious! Thanks for reminding me!

Edited to add that I find humor in some of the beliefs of fanatical Evangelicals in this country and how that site parodies that. I saw the site after I saw Jesus Camp, so it humored me. 😛
 
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