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dans0622
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I understand your concerns. The situation in the US is certainly out of the mainstream, when you consider the number of declarations of nullity which are granted–about 2/3 of all declarations of nullity in the whole world come from North America, at least in 2005. By the way, I can answer your first question, at least from 2005 statistics, for North America: 3% of the decisions were in favor of the bond in first instance courts and just under 2% in second instance. (The Middle East has the highest percentage in favor of the bond: 19%…FYI). I can’t answer your other questions.Now let’s leave the hypothetical, and allow me to ask some questions which no one probably has an answer to: (1) How many tribunals in America give negative decisions? (2) How many tribunals in America give affirmative decisions based on little or no proof? (3) How many pastors discourage divorce and tell parties that this is their one and only shot at marriage?
My suspicion is that the Church in America is living as if indissolubility were not a reality. There is a disconnect between our theoretical assent and our practical actions. And given that the maxim says “actions speak louder than words” what are our actions saying about our belief in the indissolubility of marriage?
So, does this mean that tribunals are simply saying everything is null without the necessary proof? That would likewise be a conclusion not based on proof. I might have statistics but I haven’t looked at many particular cases to see if the conclusions were flawed. While I know that there are some (I’ve seen a few) cases where the decision in favor of nullity seemed completely wrong, I think the largest factors in making the North American statistics this way are: lots and lots of people who actually fail to give consent to marriage as the Church understands it and lots and lots of people who want to regularize their current situation (second marriage) in the Church.
Perhaps the Catholics in other countries divorce just as much as in the US, and then enter another “marriage,” but they do not care about their situation. I would presume this is the case in Europe, for the most part. In North America, though, there is one marriage declared null for every seven catholic marriages. The worldwide statistic is 1:63.
Is there an “indissolubility heresy” in the US? I don’t think so, at least not among bishops and tribunal personnel. There is a huge problem with people who attempt to marry without having the proper intentions, inlcuding having an intention against indissolubility. Does the ready granting of declarations of nullity reinforce that intention against indissolubility? I suppose it might. But, the judge has to rule according to the evidence and the truth, no matter the consequences.
What the Church in North America needs is proper catechesis on what marriage truly is…not Tiger Woods-style marriage. Sadly, that’s the kind of “marriage” which is quite common, although not so public and to that extreme.
Dan