What happens when I pray for someone?

[Nelka]

If I pray for someone does God give them grace to change? lf so and they reject it aren’t the prayers wasted? Or does some of the grace get through or maybe their hostility is weakened?

Thanks.

 

[Vico]

If I pray for someone does God give them grace to change? lf so and they reject it aren’t the prayers wasted? Or does some of the grace get through or maybe their hostility is weakened?

Thanks.

Actual grace precedes conversion.

Catechism

2734 Filial trust is tested - it proves itself - in tribulation. 22 The principal difficulty concerns the prayer of petition, for oneself or for others in intercession. Some even stop praying because they think their petition is not heard. Here two questions should be asked: Why do we think our petition has not been heard? How is our prayer heard, how is it “efficacious”?

How is our prayer efficacious?

2738 The revelation of prayer in the economy of salvation teaches us that faith rests on God’s action in history. Our filial trust is enkindled by his supreme act: the Passion and Resurrection of his Son. Christian prayer is cooperation with his providence, his plan of love for men.

2739 For St. Paul, this trust is bold, founded on the prayer of the Spirit in us and on the faithful love of the Father who has given us his only Son.31 Transformation of the praying heart is the first response to our petition.

2740 The prayer of Jesus makes Christian prayer an efficacious petition. He is its model, he prays in us and with us. Since the heart of the Son seeks only what pleases the Father, how could the prayer of the children of adoption be centered on the gifts rather than the Giver?

2741 Jesus also prays for us - in our place and on our behalf. All our petitions were gathered up, once for all, in his cry on the Cross and, in his Resurrection, heard by the Father. This is why he never ceases to intercede for us with the Father.32 If our prayer is resolutely united with that of Jesus, in trust and boldness as children, we obtain all that we ask in his name, even more than any particular thing: the Holy Spirit himself, who contains all gifts.

 

[PJM]

That dear friend is a very profound POST. Thank you.

Know two things:

God does answer ALL prayers, BUT God can say:
Yes
No
Or Not now

Secondly: no prayers is “wasted” and God permits Mary to apply rejected graces to some other soul in need.[It is GOD who determines who is offered what and how much grace] Mary fololws God’s WILL precisely and totally]

Pray very much and be persistent!

God Bless you,
Patrick