We have a group of elderly priests who come to our parish each summer and they have not incorporated the changes to the GIRM in their celebration of the Eucharist. We’re a tiny parish in terms of attendance at daily mass, and many of our summer communicants are only here in the summer and have not stepped up to assist.
So, I continue to be lector at least one day a week. This leaves me assisting as Eucharistic Minister. And here’s my dilemma.
I know the changes to the GIRM, I believe I understand what I should and should not do. HOWEVER, these priests, are, even if for only a short time each year, the functioning pastors. A couple of them are actually old enough that infirmity could be well claimed for their need to have me retrieve the Eucharist from the Tabernacle (there are 3 steps involved). The other two appear to be in sufficient health that I don’t know why this would be a real issue.
I have been asked to retrieve the host (which I have done for them) and I have been asked if I had cleaned the chalice (which I had not). Today, after communion, while I was still offering the Chalice, the priest (one of the "younger, healthier ones - mid 70’s) sat down, leaving the Chalice unattended when I returned. The patten had a crumb on it.
I’m now feeling awful because I didn’t clean it, either then during Mass or afterwards.
I miss our pastor who takes the Body of Christ extremely seriously, not only in word, but also in deed.
I guess I’ll simply clean the chalice after mass on the side table and serve the priest as he prefers, for to fail to do so leaves the chalice improperly attended to, and that pains me.
Oh yeah, and last summer, I brought the changes to the GIRM to their attention and was received with hostility that continued such that I was received with an icy demeanor when they returned (Due to travels, I hadn’t seen them much last summer, so hadn’t had much opportunity for them to see that even though I disagreed with their approach to the Mass, I still respect their authority in our Parish). They insisted that the parish Not stand after “Pray Brethren…” and the other changes we had already incorporated.
In our travels I saw a great range of implementations and was saddest when we attended mass at Cathedrals and found the changes not implemented. :nope:
Any alternate ideas on how I might approach the situation?
CARose