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How would you define detachment and what would be an example if it?
Hmmm, I don’t think we’d necessarily say it’s wrong for a mother (or father) to focus on their children (edit: it depends what we mean by “focus”). Our relationships with one another are an icon of the Trinity. Our love for each other can be a way of glorifying God, and God definitely wants us to love and care for each other! When Jesus says (Luke 14) we must “hate” our mother/father/brothers/sisters/children etc, he doesn’t mean literally despise or neglect any of these people: he just means comparatively, we must love Jesus more, and be willing to act accordingly when called upon. Indeed, it bears mentioning that the parent who loves God first, can actually love their children better than the parent who loves their children ‘first’.Thank you for that insight. I’m still trying to wrap my head around it. Do you think the word ‘internalize’ could be used here? For example…a woman loves her husband and children. She cares for them, goes places with them (when there’s not a pandemic to worry about), laughs with them, etc. That’s all fine and dandy so far, right? But what if she spends her time thinking of them instead of God…she internalizes them instead of God…they are her focus, not God. It’s not quite an obsession, but it could be if it became more intense. What would be an example of ‘attachment’? Or am I totally getting this wrong?