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When going to confession, should I just confess the mortal sins I have on my soul, or should I confess the venial sins too? The reason I’m asking is that confessing venial sins seems like it would take a lot of time and it seems unnecessary since we are forgiven of those during mass.

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When going to confession, should I just confess the mortal sins I have on my soul, or should I confess the venial sins too? The reason I’m asking is that confessing venial sins seems like it would take a lot of time and it seems unnecessary since we are forgiven of those during mass.

Thank you.
I think you answered your own question. You only need to confess your mortal sins! I recommend that you pick up “Pardon and Peace” by Alfred Wilson, O.P. I believe it will help you understand in the ins and out of Confession; it certainly helped me.
 
should I confess the venial sins too?
Hi Kepha,

I think the Catechism says it best, and most succinctly:

1458 Without being strictly necessary, confession of everyday faults (venial sins) is nevertheless strongly recommended by the Church. Indeed the regular confession of our venial sins helps us form our conscience, fight against evil tendencies, let ourselves be healed by Christ and progress in the life of the Spirit.(emphasis mine)

See also the Council of Trent 14th Session, Chapter 5:

Venial sins, on the other hand, by which we are not excluded from the grace of God and into which we fall more frequently,though they may be rightly and profitably and without any presumption declared in confession, as the practice of pious people evinces, may, nevertheless, be omitted without guilt and can be expiated by many other remedies(emphasis mine)
we are forgiven of those during mass.
Yep, but not just at The Mass, as the Council of Trent points out “many other remedies”.

For instance, St. Thomas goes on to list various ways venial sins are forgiven, see the Summa, Third Part, Question 87, Article 3, Whether venial sins are removed by the sprinkling of holy water and the like?
by the Eucharist, Extreme Unction, and by all the sacraments of the New Law without exception, wherein grace is conferred, venial sins are remitted. . . the recital of the Confiteor or of an act of contrition, the beating of one’s breast, and the Lord’s Prayer conduce to the remission of venial sins. . . a bishop’s blessing, the sprinkling of holy water, any sacramental anointing, a prayer said in a dedicated church, and anything else of the kind, conduce to the remission of venial sins.
Quite a few options there!

What do you think Kepha?
God Bless,
VC
 
With respect to the time problem you mention when confessing venial sins, perhaps you might choose one recurring venial sin to target in your interior struggle. Mentioning this sin in confession would focus your attention on it, get you some good advice about overcoming it, and most importantly, get you special sacramental grace for this particular sin.

Once you have rooted out the first one, choose another, and so on. You are not wasting time confessing a bunch of venial sins, but you are making progress.

Betsy
 
The Code of Canon Law urges Priests and Religious to :“approach Penance often”, although, the Canon does not define often. A Priest or Religious ahearing to this canonical advice, will seldom if ever, have the need to confess a Mortal Sin. So, while the confession of a Mortal sin should be made as soon as possible, the frequent confession of venial sins, may very well be a safeguard against the commission of serious sin.
 
I understand that Pope John Paul II made confession weekly. It’s highly unlikely he had any mortal sins.
 
The Catechism of the Catholic Church states: “Venial sin weakens charity; it manifests a disordered affection for created goods; it impedes the soul’s progress in the exercise of the virtues and the practice of the moral good; it merits temporal punishment. Deliberate and unrepented venial sin disposes us little by little to commit mortal sin” (no.1863).

Since venial sins stunt our spiritual growth in these ways, Pope John Paul II clearly stated: “Though the Church knows and teaches that venial sins are forgiven in other ways too – for instance, by acts of sorrow, works of charity, prayer, penitential rites – she does not cease to remind everyone of the special usefulness of the sacramental moment for these sins too. The frequent use of the sacrament – to which some categories of the faithful are in fact held – strengthens the awareness that even minor sins offend God and harm the Church, the body of Christ. Its celebration then becomes for the faithful “the occasion and the incentive to conform themselves more closely to Christ and to make themselves more docile to the voice of the Spirit.” [Ordo Paenitentiae, 7b] Above all it should be emphasized that the grace proper to the sacramental celebration has a great remedial power and helps to remove the very roots of sin” (Reconciliatio et Paenitentia, no. 32). He also said, “The sphere of the use of the sacrament of reconciliation cannot be reduced to the mere hypothesis of grave sins… we recall that confession periodically renewed, the so-called confession ‘of devotion’, has always accompanied the ascent to holiness in the Church” (Address to priests at the beginning of Lent, 1981).

On 13 March 1999 he told the priests who were hearing confessions in the basilicas of Rome: “It should not be forgotten that the so-called confession of devotion was the school which formed the great saints.”

Addressing those who belittled the confession of venial sins, Pope Pius XII said: “As you well know, Venerable Brethren, it is true that venial sins may be expiated in many ways which are to be highly commended. But to ensure more rapid progress day by day in the path of virtue, we will that the pious practice of frequent confession, which was introduced by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, should be earnestly advocated. By it genuine self-knowledge is increased, Christian humility grows, bad habits are corrected, spiritual neglect and tepidity are resisted, the conscience is purified, the will strengthened, spiritual guidance is obtained, and grace is increased in virtue of the Sacrament itself” (On the Mystical Body of Christ (Mystici Corporis Christi), 1943, Part II).

Since this sacrament provides us with so many benefits, those who have distanced themselves from the Sacrament of Penance should not be surprised if – in spite of their own human efforts – they have been failing to overcome vice and grow in virtue. This is in keeping with what Our Lord said to St Veronica Juliani: “You shall make progress in perfection in proportion to the fruits which you shall draw from this sacrament.” Pope John Paul II said something similar: “I do not hesitate to say that even the great canonized saints are generally the fruit of those confessionals” (Reconciliatio et Paenitentia, no. 29).

If you’d like to learn more about the benefits of Confession there is a book called “The Gift of Confession: A Positive Approach to the Sacrament of Reconciliation.” It describes 25 striking benefits this sacrament gives to us. This is a welcome alternative to focusing upon what it takes away! Although it was released only three months ago it has already gone to its second print! It is available from (copy & paste this website into your website browser): connorcourt.com/catalog1/index.php?main_page=product_info&products_id=34
 
Scott Hahn has a good book on confession. The title escapes me, but it is a very good read, given the fact that it comes from the perspective of a convert. He is really good. In fact, my parochial vicar brought me an autographed copy of the book. He attended one of Hahn’s conferences on homilies.

In fact, my PV came back a better preacher, which is quite a stretch because he is already the best we have in our diocese (although I get angry at him quite a bit–we’ve known each other for 12 years).
 
Scott Hahn has a good book on confession. The title escapes me, but it is a very good read, given the fact that it comes from the perspective of a convert. He is really good.
Lord Have Mercy is the name of Hahn’s book. And yes, it is very good.
 
I second the recommendation of Lord, Have Mercy by Scott Hahn. I read that book around the same time I was received into the Church, and reading it, more than anything else, has caused me to value this Sacrament as a key part of my spiritual life since the day I was received.

Hahn does an excellent job (as always!) of showing how the Sacrament is the New Testament fulfillment of a concept that is rooted in the Old Covenant. He always places a good deal of emphasis on the importance of living a penitential life which is ordered to the Sacrament of Penance, but overflows into every area of daily experience.
 
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