I suppose active participation is in the eye of the beholder. It may be a TV generation thing, but people now seem to seek entertainment.
I really don’t think it’s generational. It’s more of a change in culture and way of thinking. I’ve known people old enough to be grandparents all the way to young people complain about how the mass wasn’t “entertaining” enough. For many of them, they don’t know how to keep their attention and if it is too much work for them to focus, they won’t try.
Music no one can join in singing has become the rage, not that many try to sing anyway.
Actually, until very recent history, most of the liturgical music of the mass were only meant for the musicians to play or sing. The congregation didn’t take part in most of the music. It was meant to inspire the listening congregation spiritually and to give glory to the Lord. It has never been the rage - it actually just has always been.
I think the real problem with this newer music heard in some of these parishes today, is that it is being marketed as for the people in the pews, feeding into this idea of “active participation”. In reality, it isn’t for the congregation. Some of it, rhythmically-speaking as well as melodically sometimes, is very difficult for a non-musician to handle. On top of it, many times the rendering of this music is not done very well or the composition is subpar to secular contemporary music written in the same style.
I have come to believe a sizable percentage of people go to watch Mass because they most certainly are doing nothing else at church.
Well, I don’t know how true that is, as we can’t really know for sure unless we ask every single one of those people. A person doesn’t need to be singing or saying the responses in an audible way to be actively participating. That said, I always think it’s strange when you are at a mass and the entire church is silent during the responses to the priest. I feel like the lone speaker in the congregation sometimes.
I will note that I am no fan of contemporary Christian music and P&W for various reasons. My number one reason is that I do not think it is appropriate for the liturgy. Although it is true that there are musicians/directors out there in the classical realm, as well as the contemporary realm who do give the word “perform” during the liturgy a bad name, there are many in the middle who are trying to do their best with the liturgical music. They take it very seriously and many of us get stressed out when making selections. They also work to ensure that they are not being viewed as “performing”, but as “rendering” the music.
Both sides get the critiques. Many times for the classical musicians like myself, if we do it very well, we get blasted because we render the music “too well”. People are so used to hearing that music done so poorly that for some they think a musician is showing off when they play or sing it well. (I’ve heard people complain about choirs singing Palestrina because it sounded too good.

) For the contemporary musicians, their genre can sometimes lend itself too well to a secular style, so many times because of the way it has to be performed they are automatically labeled as ego-maniacs and rock performers. For most on both sides they are any of these - they are doing their jobs for God and for Church. And many times we feel as if we’re damned if we and damned if we don’t. There’s a reason why many older music directors become crotchedy, bitter and suspicious of others. I’m determined to not be that way, that’s why I will never want to be a music director again - even for kids which is what I used to do.
So, I think before any of us start assuming that these music directors and musicians are up there to show off and to massage their egos (In the past, I have been guilty of assuming this of people in the contemporary music genre myself until I started getting to know some of them - To me, their hearts are in the right place, they’re just not going in the right direction) think about what many of these musicians have to deal with in terms of pastors telling them what to do, the politics (and there are LOTS of politics in regards to church music in the parishes) and just trying to do their jobs.
God bless.