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mavdragon
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I don’t think it’s fair to say that we can never trust this person again. He could experience a conversion of heart with God’s grace and decide to get his act together. He could do the things it takes to earn our trust back like being completed honest and transparent and humble.
Keep an eye on our tongue. When we say things like “I fee like” when the words “I think” could be substituted in for it is a slippery slope. Our feelings cannot be used to make important decisions because they can lie to us.
Was there any pre-marital encounters between the two of you before marriage? If so have you gone to confession with this? I’m not saying that there is any blame for this on your shoulders, only you know what is between you and God. I’m just saying, work on what you have control of and that is your relationship with Jesus. This has deeply wounded you, and there is fallout from this. None of us are immune.
God is asking us to Love people like your husband, even though he may not deserve it or even love himself.
I too live with an unrepentant spouse whom I have to choose to love several times a day. But i’m also aware of my sins and the mercy God affords to my life.
God bless you for still caring for your husband and choosing to bare the suffering this has caused you to safeguard your children.
Corinthians 13 would be a a good read for anyone who has followed this thread.
Keep an eye on our tongue. When we say things like “I fee like” when the words “I think” could be substituted in for it is a slippery slope. Our feelings cannot be used to make important decisions because they can lie to us.
Was there any pre-marital encounters between the two of you before marriage? If so have you gone to confession with this? I’m not saying that there is any blame for this on your shoulders, only you know what is between you and God. I’m just saying, work on what you have control of and that is your relationship with Jesus. This has deeply wounded you, and there is fallout from this. None of us are immune.
God is asking us to Love people like your husband, even though he may not deserve it or even love himself.
I too live with an unrepentant spouse whom I have to choose to love several times a day. But i’m also aware of my sins and the mercy God affords to my life.
God bless you for still caring for your husband and choosing to bare the suffering this has caused you to safeguard your children.
Corinthians 13 would be a a good read for anyone who has followed this thread.