Where to find Traditional Catholic Women?

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Where to find Traditional Catholic Women? I know they are the most rarest gems and it’s hard to find here in my place or even here in my country. My only requirements above all is her love and devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary. I don’t know where to begin. Can someone give me a clue where to start looking for that most rarest gem??
 
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I am so disappointed in my parish but its crowded with immodest and modernist women. 😦. Thanks for trying Sir Rob2.
 
What I want in a relationship is reciprocal love. I am 24
 
What do you mean by feminine? Do you mean attractive? Wearing certain clothes? Must they wear skirts only? How do you know they are immodest?

With very little information I am hazarding a guess you are being terribly closed minded and quite judgemental. Considering there seems to be some women in your church, I would encourage you to actually get to know them a little better. There is a lot more to a marriage than having a devotion to Mary (surely one can be devout in other ways??).
 
I’m going to read between the lines and with no judgement—values or choices wise—ask: are you looking for a woman who is a virgin, who wants to get married, have children and raise them at home, who is physically modest in appearance, feminine but not immodest?

Where are you from? The US?
 
You are 25% correct to your answer. I’m from the Philippines.
 
Mr. SCOTT84 how i wish I could find Traditional Latin Mass here in my place or diocese but sad to say my Diocese has none.
 
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You are 25% correct to your answer. I’m from the Philippines.
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Why not just state what you agree with and what you don’t? It’s helps for those wanting to give you advice.

Surely there are online dating sites in the Philippines or even matchmaking services. NYC has them, so do some states in India. They try to find someone compatible for you and then you meet and date, and discuss whether to proceed forward.
 
If you do not have a Traditional Latin Mass in your area, then your best bet is to advertise on a Catholic dating website and state exactly what you want and don’t want in a potential girlfriend. Just saying you want a “traditionalist” and don’t want a “modernist” is very vague. If you want a woman who wears only dresses, or is a virgin until marriage, or believes that wives should not work outside the home, etc. then you need to say that in your advertisement.

Also, just a word of advice: going on about how you were treated badly in your previous relationship or calling women wolves in sheep’s clothing, etc. is likely to scare potential dates away because it sounds like you are still hung up on your previous relationship or have some anger towards women. You need to just let it go already and meet the next woman with an upbeat attitude.
 
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Sirach 26:23 A godless wife is given as a portion to a lawless man,but a pious wife is given to the man who fears the Lord.
 
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Sirach 26:23 A godless wife is given as a portion to a lawless man,but a pious wife is given to the man who fears the Lord.
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Which is another way of saying that birds of the same feather flock together. Compromised men usually end up with compromised women. The writing is on the wall long before the marriage but it is ignored.
 
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Seems like there is some judgementalness or at least extreme labeling of women going on. Whether you believe these women are what you claim or not, sorting them into different groups is counterproductive, we all have flaws.

Perhaps God is calling you to find a non-Catholic or non-traditional woman. It’s not like all non-traditional (whatever traditional even means) woman are immodest or feminist or extremely sinful or whatever your fear is. Don’t write off every non-traditional woman until you have met every non-traditional woman.

I would suggest going to daily mass and seeing who comes, that’s what I’ve been doing at my college but I haven’t had that much luck, but there have been a few opportunities to engage with woman that I wouldn’t of had if I didn’t go to daily mass regularly (also nice to be with Jesus regularly)
 
If a wolf can be in sheep’s clothing, perhaps there are some sheep in wolf’s clothing. Let your mind be open to this possibility.
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