Which Should I Do?

[JakeSim]

First, I want to state that I have OCD, so, I’m feeling like maybe I should say something voa text to my girlfriend that involves her as well as me and is important. Now, telling her may give her stress, I’d also be telling her over text…or I could call. Anyhow, would it be a bad decision to text/call her about it or would the better thing to do be wait?

 

[theforgiveable]

First, I want to state that I have OCD, so, I’m feeling like maybe I should say something voa text to my girlfriend that involves her as well as me and is important. Now, telling her may give her stress, I’d also be telling her over text…or I could call. Anyhow, would it be a bad decision to text/call her about it or would the better thing to do be wait?

I think it depends how urgent it is. If something bad is going to happen before the time you can see her in person. Call her, tell her to sit down, and tell her you have something very important to tell her.

Now, if you can see her in person and it isn’t urgent do so. If you are comfortable saying what the situation is I could further help you but I can understand if you don’t want to

 

[JakeSim]

I think it depends how urgent it is. If something bad is going to happen before the time you can see her in person. Call her, tell her to sit down, and tell her you have something very important to tell her.

Now, if you can see her in person and it isn’t urgent do so. If you are comfortable saying what the situation is I could further help you but I can understand if you don’t want to

I just got off the phone with her.

Anyway, my thoughts have been making me uncertain about things (its my OCD or my feelings, maybe a mixture, idk) I say but I’ll expose myself to it and say thank you for the response and I appreciate it.