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Priests have cars. Who owns the car after he dies?
Some write books. Who owns the copyright after he dies?
Some write books. Who owns the copyright after he dies?
If we as Catholics don’t do eulogies for the deceased, why would it matter who gives the homily?A diocesan priest, on the other hand, typically does not take a vow of poverty. So they receive a salary, can receive gifts, inheritance, etc. The flipside is that they also are responsible for saving for their retirement. A diocesan priest would need to have a will stipulating how he wants his property distributed. I know in my diocese it is required for all priests to have a will on file at the Chancery (along with detailed instructions on their funeral - who they want to officiate, preach the homily, etc.).
They want to have a priest they’re close to preach the homily. Nothing wrong with that, is there?If we as Catholics don’t do eulogies for the deceased, why would it matter who gives the homily?
We have a similar requirement for all members of the clergy in our diocese with regard to the funeral plans. The main difference is that it is explicitly stated that the Bishop will be the main celebrant and homilist.(along with detailed instructions on their funeral - who they want to officiate, preach the homily, etc.).
HomeschoolDad:
If we as Catholics don’t do eulogies for the deceased, why would it matter who gives the homily?
The Bishop has been the main celebrant at all priests’ funerals I’ve attended as well. I suspect that is fairly standard.We have a similar requirement for all members of the clergy in our diocese with regard to the funeral plans. The main difference is that it is explicitly stated that the Bishop will be the main celebrant and homilist.
A homilist is going to care who the homilist will be at his funeral.If we as Catholics don’t do eulogies for the deceased, why would it matter who gives the homily?
Well, he arranged to have a little company in Purgatory, that way.He also said the deceased (who was a practical joker of the highest order) had stipulated that he wanted a fellow priest who is known for his off-key singing to do several solos.
I’d think that depends very much on the bishop. Our archdiocese doesn’t have that requirement; at least, I know of a priest who had a deacon close to him deliver the homily.We have a similar requirement for all members of the clergy in our diocese with regard to the funeral plans. The main difference is that it is explicitly stated that the Bishop will be the main celebrant and homilist.
I strongly suspect that our bishop polls pastors and deacons that knew the deceased well. Since the plans include the requested readings he often ties them to how the deceased (and by extension the people) lived out their call to minister throughout the world.At a funeral for a priest friend about five years ago, the homilist as the Vicar General. He explained that the deceased had left detailed instructions as to who the homilist would be. He also said the deceased (who was a practical joker of the highest order) had stipulated that he wanted a fellow priest who is known for his off-key singing to do several solos.
Not a thing in the world.HomeschoolDad:
They want to have a priest they’re close to preach the homily. Nothing wrong with that, is there?If we as Catholics don’t do eulogies for the deceased, why would it matter who gives the homily?
Makes sense.The main difference is that it is explicitly stated that the Bishop will be the main celebrant and homilist.
I have left explicit instructions in my will for the Traditional Latin Requiem Mass celebrated by a priest of the FSSP.HomeschoolDad:
A homilist is going to care who the homilist will be at his funeral.If we as Catholics don’t do eulogies for the deceased, why would it matter who gives the homily?
He doesn’t want to have to bang on the lid of the casket!
It unnecessarily complicates things not to, and priests tend to exercise prudence.Having been working for parishes and having seen the death of many priests, they all left a will.
No, I did not realize that. I have lived a bit of a liturgically sheltered life in recent years. The last Novus Ordo “Masses of Christian Burial” that I attended were over 40 years ago, and I don’t recall whether they had eulogies, pseudo-eulogies, or no eulogy at all. That was during the 1970s and “anything goes” was the order of the day in many places. The last Catholic funeral of any kind that I attended was a Traditional Latin Requiem Mass, and I don’t believe there was a eulogy. I have never attended a funeral for a priest.Surely you must realize that a liturgically appropriate funeral homily can - and virtually always does - contain some personal reference to the life of the deceased, without turning into a “eulogy.” Why would you question that a priest, having given his life in service to God and the Church, can choose who his funeral homilist would be?
The last priest’s funeral I attended had several bishops . . . I think we had all four fo ours plus a couple of emeritus, a couple from other churches, and the local RC bishop, who also spoke (Fr. Francis was the chancellor for the local RC dioceses for some time, and built/opened a couple of their parishes.He quipped something to the effect off "Frances, you’re finally quiet! --which was met with laughter from, well, everyone who had ever met him :crazy_face: )The Bishop has been the main celebrant at all priests’ funerals I’ve attended as well.
He doesn’t want to have to bang on the lid of the casket!
I’ve been asked more than once about joining choirs and/or being a cantor. I’ve been baffled by this, as I’m the next thing from tone deaf–enough so that I can tell that I can’t carry a tune (unless I sing so low that the notes can’t be distinguished . . .).I both laugh and cry at the idea of some of our tone deaf clergy singing solos.
I call it “a voice that only ordination could have made into a soloist.”I both laugh and cry at the idea of some of our tone deaf clergy singing solos.