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radishbo
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I am an active Catholic and I have been having some doubts about the faith - I’m slowly resolving them one by one, but this is perhaps the most persistant one for me.
If someone were to pose the question to me prior to my birth and say: ok, you are going to be born into a world filled with sin and pain and fear. you will be unhappy the vast majority of the time. there is love and goodness available but you will have to work hard every single day, reject the status quo and the advice of all your peers and constantly battle temptation in order to remain in it. at the end of all this, you might have eternal bliss and joy or, objectively more likely, you will be subject to eternal torment. What do you think?
well, i would simply say No Thank You.
I don’t understand why I was given a life and soul that I do not particularly want. I didn’t agree to be put to this excrutiating test. I didn’t agree to be subjected to eternal existence of any kind. I can’t help but feel it is, at the very least, mildly unfair that I am going to be judged based on the results of an exam I never asked to take.
Since we have free will, why is there no option to opt out? I would bet there are many, many people in the world who would choose to not be born if they had ever been given the choice.
I also struggle a lot with the idea of ever becoming a parent because of this. My relationship with my parents is very iffy because I spent much of my youth resenting them for creating me. I don’t see how I could ever possibly give birth to a child in good conscience, knowing it may very well feel the same as me and not really want to be brought into the world at all.
If someone were to pose the question to me prior to my birth and say: ok, you are going to be born into a world filled with sin and pain and fear. you will be unhappy the vast majority of the time. there is love and goodness available but you will have to work hard every single day, reject the status quo and the advice of all your peers and constantly battle temptation in order to remain in it. at the end of all this, you might have eternal bliss and joy or, objectively more likely, you will be subject to eternal torment. What do you think?
well, i would simply say No Thank You.
I don’t understand why I was given a life and soul that I do not particularly want. I didn’t agree to be put to this excrutiating test. I didn’t agree to be subjected to eternal existence of any kind. I can’t help but feel it is, at the very least, mildly unfair that I am going to be judged based on the results of an exam I never asked to take.
Since we have free will, why is there no option to opt out? I would bet there are many, many people in the world who would choose to not be born if they had ever been given the choice.
I also struggle a lot with the idea of ever becoming a parent because of this. My relationship with my parents is very iffy because I spent much of my youth resenting them for creating me. I don’t see how I could ever possibly give birth to a child in good conscience, knowing it may very well feel the same as me and not really want to be brought into the world at all.