Everyone dies when our allotted lives are up.
That’s why murder and violence are so abhorrent throughout the world-- they cut short the natural lifespan.
That’s why abortion and euthanasia are so controversial-- they cut short the natural lifespan.
Within that natural lifespan, we have a certain amount of time to do the tasks God has given to us to perform. Each of us is like a puzzle piece, and we join together to make a complete picture. If a puzzle piece is missing, or if this piece doesn’t want to do its job, then the puzzle suffers for it.
I’ve known children who have died in infancy who have done amazing things, even before they were born. And I know adults who have had 70, 80 years-- and they’ve caused strife as far as the eye can see. Having a long lifespan does not equal being blessed (a la the Old Testament lifespans, where it was indicative of how close people were to God); or does not indicate that you’ve necessarily used your life well.
The books are full of saints who only made it into their teens or 20’s or 30’s-- and, having accomplished their tasks, they were allowed to exchange this existence for a better one with the God they loved in Heaven.
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How many saints yearned to be finished with their work on earth, so they could get to the good stuff?
All three children were involved in the Fatima apparitions, and all three children were involved in prayer, Eucharistic devotions, sacrifice, and making atonements. Lucia’s job was to stick around on earth and keep working for the conversion of sinners. But Jacinta and Francisco had a different path.
If they were pleased to use the merits of their own sufferings to unite them with those of Christ’s (like Paul), and if they were anxious enough to be in heaven (which they’d already seen) that 9yo Francisco refused hospital treatment, and if Jacinta knew when and how she was going to die, and was perfectly fine with God’s will— why would any of us second-guess their paths, when we have enough trouble with our own?
“Why would a just God allow bad things to happen to good people” has been debated forever. The first answer that comes to mind is, “What did a just God allow to happen to the most perfect Person who ever walked the earth, and what happened to all his best friends and followers?”
St. Therese once said–
In light of heaven, the worst suffering on earth will be seen to be no more serious than one night in an inconvenient hotel
as well as–
If this is how You treat Your friends, no wonder why You have so few of them!
So yes, your sister isn’t the first one to pick up on it, so you can’t be hard on her— but she has to think it all the way through, rather than stopping at Observation Mode.