Why Do Godparents have to Take Classes for Their God-kids

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Hello, I was asked by my sister about why godparents would have to take classes (her boyfriend has to take some classes in order to prepare for his god-kid’s Baptism). I was trying to think of a good answer, but I couldn’t come up with one. I feel like this would have an obvious answer, I would suppose that it’s because they would want godparents to be able to effectively teach about and be able to lead their god-kids closer to Jesus, but I guess I wanted to provide a more substantive answer to her question. I feel like I would only be able to do so if I knew what they usually teach Godparents in preparation for their God-kid’s baptism. So what kind of answers would you give if somebody asked you that same question? And if any of you would be able to give me an idea as to what they teach during those classes that would be great. Thanks!
 
A lot of people don’t have a clear idea about baptism and what it means. A class of an hour or two won’t make them experts, but it may give them more of an understanding than they had previously.

In addition, a lot of parents and godparents may not be particularly practicing Catholics, so this is a way to introduce them to the parish and welcome them as well as make them aware of their responsibilities to the child being baptized.
 
I was never asked to do any classes. But my goddaughter was baptised by a traddy priest who knows I’m serious about the faith so I guess he was happy with that. I didn’t know that classes were a thing.
 
I just mean more in my particular case, where he knew that I know my stuff, maybe he didn’t bother.
 
Hello, I was asked by my sister about why godparents would have to take classes (her boyfriend has to take some classes in order to prepare for his god-kid’s Baptism). I was trying to think of a good answer,
The job of the Godfather is really mostly years after the baptism. At the baptism, its just a short procedure, wouldn’t need to have classes for it.

But years later, the Church wouldn’t have the godfather’s attention, so it has to be done before baptism so at least it gets in.
 
Traditionally, the godparents were the designated guardians of the child, in the event of the death or incapacitation of the parents before the child was grown. As such, they would be expected to be prepared to take on the role of the parents in raising the children in the Faith.
 
If parents want guardians for their children they need to see a lawyer and make proper arrangements. Being a godparent carries no legal authority.
 
According to the Church it is God parents not biological parents who will judged by God about their God kid’s faith or lack thereof. So why not take classes? My God mother never talked anything religious with me, she was just someone from the family. It would’ve been nice if she knew what a godmother is supposed to do. My parents never cared much about faith but apparently it wasn’t even their job God’s eyes.
So…yeah take classes if you don’t know enough religion. Great idea imho.
 
Of course, thank you.

But why would a traditionalist priest be more likely to ignore the rules on Godparent classes?
A traditionalist priest would be more likely to take in individual approach to preparation because he would likely not be within a parish with an established one-size-fits-all program. It isn’t the classes that are required, it is the understanding of baptism as a sacrament and the role of the sponsor that is required.
 
This is the section of canon law having to do with baptismal sponsors:

SPONSORS

Can. 872 Insofar as possible, a person to be baptized is to be given a sponsor who assists an adult in Christian initiation or together with the parents presents an infant for baptism. A sponsor also helps the baptized person to lead a Christian life in keeping with baptism and to fulfill faithfully the obligations inherent in it.

Can. 873 There is to be only one male sponsor or one female sponsor or one of each.

Can. 874 §1. To be permitted to take on the function of sponsor a person must:

1/ be designated by the one to be baptized, by the parents or the person who takes their place, or in their absence by the pastor or minister and have the aptitude and intention of fulfilling this function;

2/ have completed the sixteenth year of age, unless the diocesan bishop has established another age, or the pastor or minister has granted an exception for a just cause;

3/ be a Catholic who has been confirmed and has already received the most holy sacrament of the Eucharist and who leads a life of faith in keeping with the function to be taken on;

4/ not be bound by any canonical penalty legitimately imposed or declared;

5/ not be the father or mother of the one to be baptized.

§2. A baptized person who belongs to a non-Catholic ecclesial community is not to participate except together with a Catholic sponsor and then only as a witness of the baptism.


If someone were to ask me, I’d say baptism classes were established because some bishops or parishes recognized that a good faith effort to establish that sponsors met the conditions of canon law and were well-informed of their duties required such a class. In other words, experience taught that it could not be assumed that the parents would choose candidates who were both eligible and aware of the duties of a Catholic godparent. Everyone has to go to the classes in order to avoid giving insult to those who absolutely do need the classes but won’t admit that they do.

Pastors generally have the latitude to use their own good judgment to deem a baptismal sponsor well-prepared without the classes. It is far easier to have a rule requiring classes and make exceptions to the requirement (by allowing some people to do less) than to make people who need more training to be the exceptional cases and telling them they have to do more than the typical amount. Some pastors find it reasonable to just ask everyone to go to the classes. It isn’t an onerous requirement.
 
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My God parents are largely useless. I haven’t heard from them in years… Shame.
 
Awesome =) Thanks for the great (name removed by moderator)ut guys.
 
My God parents are largely useless. I haven’t heard from them in years… Shame.
Have you reached out to your Godfather? Have you had need to?

Its only a shame if you were in need of something, reached out, and still didn’t hear from him.
 
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