Think different. Take a leap of faith.
Two lessons on leaping in general. First from
Douglas Adams:
*"How to fly. The knack lies in learning how to throw yourself at the ground and miss. Pick a nice day, the Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy suggests, and try it.
The first part is easy. All it requires is simply the ability to throw yourself forward with all your weight, and the willingness not to mind that it’s going to hurt.
That is, it’s going to hurt if you fail to miss the ground. Most people fail to miss the ground, and if they are really trying properly, the likelihood is that they will fail to miss it fairly hard.
Clearly, it is the second part, the missing, which presents the difficulties.
One problem is that you have to miss the ground accidentally. It’s no good deliberately intending to miss the ground because you won’t. You have to have your attention suddenly distracted by something else when you’re halfway there, so that you are no longer thinking about falling, or about the ground, or about how much it’s going to hurt if you fail to miss it.
It is notoriously difficult to prize your attention away from these three things during the split second you have at your disposal. Hence most people’s failure, and their eventual disillusionment with this exhilarating and spectacular sport."*
So once you’ve got the idea of not trying to control everything, second lesson in taking leaps from
Alanis Morissette:
*"The moment I let go of it was the moment / I got more than I could handle / The moment I jumped off of it / Was the moment I touched down
How bout no longer being masochistic / How bout remembering your divinity / How bout unabashedly bawling your eyes out / How bout not equating death with stopping
Thank you India / Thank you Providence, thank you disillusionment / Thank you nothingness / Thank you clarity / Thank you thank you silence."*