I was wondering why the Church specifically asks Mary to pray for them over other physically deceased saints?
Can you ask physically deceased people you’ve known to pray for you?
is there some other kind of deceased besides physically?
Mary is closest to Christ, being his Mother, and specifically gave her to us to be our mother and the mother of the Church as he hung on the Cross, and that is a great reason to ask her to lead us to her Son. She will tell us what she always says: do whatever He tells you.
We can ask all the saints to pray for us and with us and to intercede with God for us because they continually behold his face and are in his presence, that is the definition of a saint.
We have no assurance that our loved ones are in heaven, but we have that hope, and if they have lived a good life and died in the state of grace, we know that they will someday be in heaven. We can pray for them, that if they must undergo purgatory they soon be released to heaven, and pray to them. That is because the dead are in infinity now, not bound by earth time.
to correct a slight misapprehension in an earlier post, Mary is in heaven body and soul, that is dogma, but the Church is silent on whether she actually died physically before her Son assumed her into heaven, or whether she merely fell asleep.