This seems to me too, to be the case—that the CC was and is more influenced by the times its leaders live in than some Catholic apologists care to admit. I wonder if it’s reasonable to say that we live in a post-Christian, but still residually Christian-influenced, time now, and so I’ll be curious to see how the CC handles challenges like this from here on out.
Each generation will approach things differently. And I mean this as the majority of members both as leaders and laity.
The approach can be noble, weak, bold, wise, foolish, etc. But the official Teaching will be True and consistent.
Consider when the crowds of Jesus began to grow large. Many were insincere. Jesus set before them a challenge of faith in Teaching. He prophesised about His Eucharist. Many left Him.
Each generation has the challenge of compelling the world to believe and its followers to obey! This is truly a duanting task! For individual leaders, the way is to be an example and to live put the Gospel in works and teaching. But as a Magisterium, there are many difficult decisions in how to approach things. Sometimes they can make unwise approaches, for sure. But the Teaching is still the Teaching, and like the Christians were said to do in the quote in my signature, so we do when we seek the Teachings of the Church.
The approach of giving a harsh ultimatum has shown to have negative results. For some time now, the approach has been open dialogue and apologetics has grown stronger, while dissent and Protestantism grows as well.
I believe there is a time for both, and there will always be some who don’t accept. But I would like to see actual Catholic members to uphold their own faith. This should be what the Church focusses on.