Woman Who Had 5 Abortions Finds "Love From Above"

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**Woman who had five abortions says Project Rachel saved her

**By Amy Guckeen
Catholic News Service

MILWAUKEE (CNS) – When she was 20, at a time when most young people are on the cusp of life, Yvonne Florczak-Seeman wanted nothing more than to end her life.

That was until she found out about Project Rachel, founded in Milwaukee in 1984 by Vicki Thorn to offer post-abortion reconciliation and healing.

Florczak-Seeman was in her second trimester of pregnancy and had decided to have an abortion; it would be her fifth abortion since her 16th birthday.

“To me they were just fetuses,” she said. “I was in total denial. … I knew the routine, (I) lined up on a bench with another 20 women, and waited for my number to be called.”

But having an abortion in her second trimester was more difficult, the vacuum louder and larger to accommodate the more complicated procedure.

“The pain was unbelievable,” she told the Catholic Herald, newspaper of the Milwaukee Archdiocese. “This time I knew something wasn’t right. I left the clinic and swore I had survived the inconceivable. I swore I’d never go to another clinic.”

Three days later, she said, she started hemorrhaging, had to be admitted to the emergency room and was told she needed a surgical procedure. “The abortion had not removed the entire baby,” she said. “It was the first time, that procedure, that they said the fetus was a baby.”

Florczak-Seeman said her fifth abortion, when it was finally acknowledged she was carrying a baby, began for her “a lifetime of unanswered questions as far as choice was concerned.”

She added, “Choice was exposed for what it is, giving the woman the right to end the life of her child. Having ended five lives, I concluded that I didn’t deserve my own.”

But Florczak-Seeman discovered Project Rachel and forgiveness. She had tried other forms of therapy, but nothing seemed to free her until she came to the program.

“Project Rachel relies on the forgiveness from up above,” said Florczak-Seeman, who is now married and the mother of two young sons and a daughter.

When Thorn decided to start her post-abortion ministry, there were not many experts on what women suffered following an abortion.

Thorn, a member of St. Catherine Parish in Milwaukee, originally saw Project Rachel only as an archdiocesan project. But it has branched out into more than 160 dioceses across the United States and several countries.
 
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“I’m in awe of it,” Thorn said. “Twenty years later, and I’m still in awe. There is now a multitude of women who are free to walk, smile and laugh again. God has restored a mother’s heart to them.”

Thorn was inspired to create Project Rachel after helping a friend who had given a baby up for adoption and aborted a second child. It was through this friend’s pain that Thorn saw the need for ministry.

“She just kept telling me, ‘I can live with the adoption. I can’t live with the abortion,’” said Thorn. “After the abortion, the life of a woman unfolds, and the wounds remain to be very deep.”

In 1990, Thorn founded the National Office of Post-Abortion Reconciliation and Healing to centralize the ministries rising up across the country. Today the center receives 300 to 400 calls a month from across the world.

Thorn said she believes Project Rachel gives women the strength to speak out about their experiences, in hopes of healing themselves and helping others who may be in the same position.

She has found that as a result of Project Rachel, a huge campaign has erupted from those who have been hurt by abortion. Silence is no longer an option.

“Those hurt by abortion can be the greatest defenders of life,” said Thorn.

“We come from different walks of life, but all of our lives were ruined because of abortion,” said Florczak-Seeman, today a resident of Westmont, Ill.

In 1999 she founded Love From Above, a program that assists women who are dealing with post-abortive concerns or are contemplating abortion by providing them spiritual guidance, counseling alternatives and employment opportunities.

“The truth needs to be spoken. Our voices need to ring out across the nation,” said Florczak-Seeman. “The truth will only come from those who have been hurt. We know whether or not it’s a baby. No one can take that away from us. No one can silence that.”

Today, Project Rachel links women and others affected by abortion to the help they need, existing as a network of caregivers.

Father Ralph Gross, pastor of St. Margaret Mary Parish in Milwaukee, has counseled women with Project Rachel since the late 1980s.

Since the moment he heard Thorn tell of the terrible aftermath abortion can cause, he dedicated himself to helping these women heal.

“The heart of Christ is very big,” said Father Gross. "He would never want someone to continue to be separated from a relationship with him.

“I know abortion is so very wrong. At the same time, we must look at the life of the individual woman who had an abortion,” he said. “She must be of concern to us. The church really needs to become more warm, compassionate and caring to these women.”
 
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Project Rachel marks 20 years
of helping women

http://www.chnonline.org/images/spacer.gifHealing comes through ‘forgiveness from up above’

http://www.chnonline.org/images/spacer.gifBy Amy Guckeen
Special to the Catholic Herald
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FINDING FORGIVENESS — Yvonne Florczak-Seeman assists her children, Sarah, 2, Michael, 7, and Kevin, 11 with their homework at their home in Westmont, Ill., on Sept. 23. Florczak-Seeman, who had five abortions before she was 21 years old, has found forgiveness and compassion through Project Rachel, a post-abortion ministry which marks its 20th anniversary this year. (Catholic Herald photo by Karen Callaway)MILWAUKEE — A great darkness had been cast over her delicate 20 year old life. At a time when others were on the cusp of life, Yvonne Florczak-Seeman wanted nothing more than to end hers. She was on her fifth abortion. Since her 16th birthday, she had ended four lives. In her second trimester, at the age of 20, she decided it was time to end the fifth.

“To me they were just fetuses,” says Florczak-Seeman. “I was in total denial and beyond the 12-week period. I knew the routine, lined up on a bench with another 20 women, and waited for my number to be called.”

Only this time was not like the others. In her second trimester, the abortion would be more difficult. With the sound of the vacuum, louder and larger to accommodate the more complicated procedure, Florczak-Seeman vowed to never return to an abortion clinic.

Full story…
 
illinoisleader.com/printer/article.asp?c=23283

THOMAS: Yvonne’s Story and a Woman’s Right to Know

Wednesday, March 02, 2005

By Scott Thomas (admin@illinoisleader.com)

illinoisleader.com/content/img/f23283/SZ200_rep_hultgren.jpgState Rep. Randy Hultgren (R-Wheaton) is the House sponsor of Woman’s Right to Know legislation in Springfield.OPINION - In Illinois, we are blessed to have some amazingly determined women, fighting with all they have in them to wake up the rest of the state to the horrors of abortion. Perhaps the biggest voice among them comes in the tiniest package: Yvonne Florczak-Seeman.

It has been my pleasure to get to know and admire Yvonne over the last year and a half, ever since she first appeared on my radio program. Her own abortion experience is deeply troubling…sad beyond words. But, her resolve to prevent other women from experiencing that sadness, that devastation is the stuff heroes are made of.

Her complete story is too long to tell here. Besides, she tells it with much more conviction than I ever could. I suggest you click here for more details: Yvonne’s Story.

In summary, an abortionist she mistakenly trusted told Yvonne that he would be performing a simple procedure to remove “…a fetus, a lifeless blob of tissue”. Three days after the abortion procedure, she found herself in a hospital emergency room, hemorrhaging. The bleeding would not stop. The emergency room nurse recognized it as a botched abortion and, upon examination, told Yvonne, “We’re going to have to go in and get the other half of the baby.”

“And, that’s when the full tragedy of what I’d done hit me,” she told me. “I had never once been told the abortionist was removing a baby. They said it was just meaningless tissue.”

That moment, painful as it was, was the beginning of a new life for Yvonne–a God inspired life that has turned her sorrow and personal devastation into advocacy for women, in particular post-abortive women.
 
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“I’ve learned that Jesus loves me, despite my abortions (she’s had more than one). God has blessed me with a loving husband and children of my own. I want other women who have been victimized by abortionists to know God loves them, too.”

Yvonne, perhaps more than any other Christian I know, truly understands and appreciates God’s amazing grace.

But, beyond her Love from Above and Time to Speak ministries on behalf of post-abortive women, Yvonne is expressing righteous anger at “so called pro-choice” lawmakers in Illinois. “A person getting her tooth pulled gets more information and more warnings about potential dangers than does a young girl getting an abortion.”

That’s why she is leading a group of women in Springfield this week in support of State Representative Randy Hultgren’s proposed “Woman’s Right to Know” legislation.

The bill, if passed, would require abortionists to explain all the risks involved with this invasive procedure, warn women about potential after effects–physical, emotional and psychological–and would require a 24 waiting period before an abortion took place.

“It’s not a pro-life bill. It’s not a pro-choice bill”, says Yvonne. “It’s a pro women’s bill. How in world can a 15 year old girl who, by law, doesn’t even have to have her parent’s consent, make an informed ‘choice’, when abortionists don’t give her all the facts?” She’s absolutely right.

This proposed legislation has groups like Planned Parenthood up in arms, because they know that when women, even those in crisis pregnancies, get all the information–it’s a baby, not a meaningless blob of tissue; there is a heartbeat at 18 days; by the time most abortions take place, ultrasound can identify the sex of the baby; women risk breast cancer, infertility and other dysfunctions, scaring and even death as consequences of abortion–many more will choose to carry their babies to term.

That would mean a loss of countless millions of dollars to the abortion industry.

My admiration and prayers go with Yvonne Florczak-Seeman and these brave women fighting an uphill battle in this morally messed up state. The need for such obvious disclosure of vital information on the part of abortionists reminds me that, in Illinois, the only “choice” the abortion supporters want a woman to make is the uninformed choice of killing her baby.

© 2005 IllinoisLeader.com – all rights reserved
 
Dear friend

Thank you for posting this up.

Would anyone who reads this thread also remember to include in their daily prayers a little prayer for Lisa4Catholics prayer intention (see here: Prayers of protection needed in Memphis ) for the right to life from conception until natural death, for mercy upon those souls who defy God’s will by promoting death, that those who have had abortions find God’s forgiveness, healing and infinite Mercy and for the protection of those who campaign for this natural and God given gift of life?

Thank you and God Bless you always

Teresa
 
Police drag 14-year-old’s mom out of abortion mill

Today, Jill writes on WorldNetDaily.com, “There was a waiting room to the side,” the 14-year-old’s mother, Shane, told me. “While they were hollering for security, I said to my girlfriend, ‘Handle them,’ and I went in and looked around. There were girls stacked up in chairs and on the floor like cattle. They were all so young.” Nicole wasn’t among them. Shane went into the hallway and started yelling Nicole’s name and begging to see Nicole…
Read more…

More of Jill Stanek’s Column’s jillstanek.net/columns/
 
Yvonne Florczak Seeman just converted to Catholicism 6 months ago!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!

lovefromaboveinc.com/TimeToSpeak/?PageId=3

A Time To Speak
Fetus vs. Baby
Looking at the debate from a different angle


The following is the testimony of:
Yvonne Florczak-Seeman
President/ Founder
Love From Above, Inc.


It was on my fifth abortion when the slogan of “Choice” became suspicious to me. I was in complete denial. Eight weeks turned into nine weeks, and nine turned into ten. Then, a few weeks later, I finally went to the clinic. I was very familiar with the routine. I went into the locker room, I undressed, and I went to sit on a bench with fifteen to twenty other girls/women who were waiting for their number to be called.

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But this time was different. My number was called and (like all the others waiting) I wiped away the tears and followed the nurse. She told me to lie down because we didn’t have much time. A man came in and started the procedure. (I assumed he was the doctor; however, he never introduced himself nor did he address me.) The pain was like never before so I told him to stop, but he got very angry and said with a very loud voice, “This is a second term, gestation 13 or 14! We need more money!” Then he got up and walked out of the room.

I asked the nurse what was happening. She said, “Do you have more money?” and asked me if someone was waiting for me. I told her that my boyfriend was waiting for me. She called him back and talked with him to see if he could get more money. He left, got the money, and came right back. As soon as he paid the additional $150.00 she came into the room and told me to put my feet up. The man promptly returned to the room and began a different procedure. With this procedure he used some bigger instruments including a stronger/louder vacuum with a bigger hose. As soon as he turned on the vacuum I cried out, “Please, stop! I have changed my mind!” He said, “It’s too late now. Just lay back and don’t move because you will hurt yourself.” The tone of his voice was very cold and very clear. When he finished he told the nurse to hurry up and clear the mess so they could begin the next procedure. After my procedure I left the clinic convinced that I had survived the inconceivable, and I made an oath (at the age of 20) that I would never enter another clinic again.

But, three days after leaving that clinic, I began to hemorrhage and I ended up in the emergency room. When I arrived they asked me what was wrong. I told them that I had had an abortion three days earlier and that, although it was a simple medical procedure, the bleeding wouldn’t stop. I told them that I had had other abortions and that this had never happened before. The nurse asked me, “Well, how many abortions have you had?” I told her this was my fifth. They ran some tests only to determine that the baby hadn’t been completely removed, and that I was going to need a D&C. I turned toward the nurse who had just given me the news and said to her, “What baby are you talking about? This was just a blob of tissue! You know, a fetus!” She immediately realized what she had said and started to change her verbiage to the medical terminology.
 
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But it was already too late! At that moment, I realized for the first time what had really happened and why the last 4 ½ years were so void in my life. Suddenly it all made sense. All the missing pieces of my life brought about by this “Choice” were finally starting to reveal the truth. My depression, my desire to die, my “missing something” but not knowing what that “something” was. At that moment, Choice was exposed, and I realized that I had been given the legal right to end the lives of my babies! Through this revelation my life hit rock bottom, and the few solid pieces that were left seemed to be crumbling into dust. In this state of mind, I turned to suicide as my solution once again. I figured no one would miss me. I thought I really hadn’t contributed anything to society other than five dead babies, who (if given the opportunity) would never forgive me for the Choice I made about their lives. I left the hospital that morning and walked all the way home. It was truly the longest walk of my life! I wondered the entire way home how I managed to make such a mess of my life.

That abortion, along with the four previous abortions, started a lifelong journey of many unanswered questions. Questions like:
  • Am I the only one who knows the truth?
  • If this is really true, why aren’t people talking about it?
  • Who can I ask?
  • Am I alone, or do others question this “Choice”?
  • Why are they saying that this “Choice” protects women?
  • Why aren’t women accurately informed about what “Choice” really means?
  • Why do they say it’s between a doctor and his patient if women never talk to the doctor at all?
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This journey back to the truth has been painful, but I have learned many things. As a post-abortive woman, both Pro-Choice and Pro-Life advocates have looked at me as a failure. Pro-Choice wants me to be silent on this issue because abortion is a trillion dollar business. If women like me start talking maybe some people will change their minds and abortion will be exposed and viewed differently. Some Pro-Lifers believe I deserve to live with the pain of the truth. From the time of my first abortion to when the healing finally started taking place, nineteen years were lost. Before I could embrace the truth, I had to deal with the years of guilt, shame, anger, regret, depression, endless crying episodes, remorse, temper explosions, drug and alcohol abuse, and dysfunctional relationships with men and women.

My journey toward truth has become a lifelong quest, if you will. In this quest for truth I have come to the most horrifying realization: I was given the legal right to end the lives of my five children. Words will never express the pain of not knowing who they would have become. Time has passed. Many years have gone by. When I look in the mirror I don’t see as many regrets any more. Finally, I can see new beginnings, along with some wrinkles and gray hair. Time has healed the wounds and has given me great courage. I tell my story often, and I find strength in breaking the silence day after day. I have shared my regret with tens of thousands who have experienced the same pain.

I now understand the greatest revelation: My children’s deaths were not in vain. Today, the pain their death once caused is giving others the strength to accept forgiveness and the freedom to embrace life and live again. I truly believe that my experiences are not to be shrouded in silence and secrecy. Many have tried to debate the abortion issue with me, and have been silenced by the powerful facts, by the consequences abortion leaves behind. I am tired of the opinions, debates, and theories!

- Yvonne Florczak-Seeman
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Thank you for posting this. It’s difficult to read sometimes, but well worth it if you can.
 
Yvonne Florczak-Seeman will be on “Catholic Answers” Friday, February 17th!!!

If you miss the show click here to listen to it…

www2.catholic.com/radio/calendar.php?type=month&calendar=1&category=0

There are some great shows scheduled in January and February '06 on Catholic Answers. If you missed the shows, you can still listed to them on the above website. Here are the interesting topics…

1-20-06 Karen Malec - The Abortion/Breast Cancer Link
1-20-06 Fr. Pavone - Pro Life Open Forum

www2.catholic.com/radio/calendar.php?type=month&calendar=1&category=0&month=01&year=2006

2-3-06 Dr. Alan Keyes - Is God Democrat or Republican?
2-3-06 Bishop Thomas Olmsted - The Five Non-Negotiables
2-10-06 Fr. Benedict Groeschel - Chastity for Those with Same Sex Attraction
2-13-06 Monica Miller - Can Women Become Priests?
2-17-06 Yvonne Florczak Seeman - A Time to Speak
2-17-06 Dr. John Wilke - Pro Life Open Forum

www2.catholic.com/radio/calendar.php
 
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