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I think St. Ignatius of Loyola gave his spiritual sons, the Jesuits, one of the greatest methods to remain focused on the kingdom of God while not succumbing to the vanity of idle comparison. This method is known as the Examen Prayer.

As this website illustrates, the Examen Prayer moves through a series of reflective-meditative stages that begins with placing ourselves completely before God and ends with a heart-to-heart talk with Jesus. What’s important about this prayer are the stages in-between where a person examines his/her day, studying one’s motives, how something could have been handled differently, taking some pride in a good deed performed, and just being thankful and gracious for all that the Lord has provided, good or bad, because every moment truly is a moment of grace.

I think if we all were to take a few moments at the end of our day to just rest and focus on our relationship with God and how it has unfolded in the day past, perhaps rather than just dozing off in front of the television, or hustling forward with the next busy activity, then I think the temptation to see ourselves as something “lesser” would eventually dissolve.
that’s great, thank you! 🙂
 
Tonight, in talking with Our Lady, she impressed upon me something truly important, something humbling, and yet something immensely difficult – especially for those of us who, like myself, are often so full of themselves that it can be blinding:

What Sts. Therese and Paul say about diversity in unity and unity in diversity, of recognizing that the Church operates with many different parts, all hinges on one crucial point: You must accept that you may never aspire to the holiness which others will aspire to; however, you can take solace because God will love you all the more.

St. Therese’s words may ring pleasant in our ears, for she truly had a way with words, but the challenge – a challenge which will require much mortification on our part – is recognize that, yes, we may very well not be the rose of God, that we are much more likely to only be His tiniest wildflower. True, while God will love us because He finds all of His flowers beautiful, the tiniest wildflower must be able to look at the lovely roses without envy, to take solace and comfort and even humble pride in being God’s wildflower and nothing more than a wildflower. This is the call to humble-heartedness which Our Lord speaks of in the Beatitudes.

So, the next time you hear St. Paul’s admonition to the Corinthians, asking them to take heart in only being the leg, arm, or eye of the Church, recognize that what’s at heart in St. Paul’s admonition is that the leg, arm, or eye is much more likely to feel insignificant when it sees the great pragmatism of the other parts; this is the temptation of comparison. When we compare ourselves, we become envious with others and we devalue ourselves. When the wildflower desires so strongly to be something other than a wildflower, it will forget to turn towards the sunlight its given and will eventually wilt and die and crumble.

May Our Lady continue to guide you all!
that’s a great idea 👍🙂
 
I wanted to share this wonderful quote by St Therese 🙂
"No envious glances will be seen; the happiness of every one of the elect will be the happiness of all. With the Martyrs we shall be like to the Martyrs; with the Doctors we shall be as the Doctors; with the Virgins, as the Virgins; and just as the members of a family are proud of one another, so shall we be of our brethren, without the least jealousy.
Who knows even if the joy we shall experience in beholding the glory of the great Saints, and knowing that by a secret disposition of Providence we have contributed thereunto, who knows if this joy will not be as intense and sweeter perhaps, than the happiness they will themselves possess.
And do you not think that on their side the great Saints, seeing what they owe to quite little souls, will love them with an incomparable love? Delightful and surprising will be the friendships found there - I am sure of it. The favored companion of an Apostle or a great Doctor of the Church, will perhaps be a young shepherd lad; and a simple little child may be the intimate friend of a Patriarch. Oh! how I long to dwell in that Kingdom of Love… "
I think a great sign of humility… is to rejoice in the blessings that others have. To look at the Saints rejoicing in their glory, even if you yourself are just a “little wildflower”. I wish I had humility like that!
 
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