Young Physical Boundaries

[Catholic_89]

Thanks so much for all that you guys have written! It gives us hope and comfort knowing what you have said. I notice a lot of what you are suggesting is improving our spiritual relationship. Outside of going to Mass together (we would both really love that but it just does not look feasible), what would you suggest to improve this? We pray for our chastity each night, as well as just for each other. Any other ideas you have? Thanks so much.

-Leo
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My advice is to not only continue praying for each other but for God to let you know your true vocation. Even though you think you want to get married, you should still be open to another vocation should God call you. But praying for each other is wonderful. If God really wants you to be together, your relationship will blossom, and in praying for knowing your vocation, you will be more sure in the future.

From my experience, I found doing Novenas to St.Joseph, or going to adoration a big help. Talking about religious issues is also good. It helps remind you of each others faith. Going to mass with her is good, but remember your family as well. Don’t try to act married and go all the time with her, at the expense of family. I think you have the right attitude, so good job. It is rare indeed that I hear about youth such as yourself trying to uphold such values. God bless.

 

[rpp]

Just be safe.

What is that supposed to mean?