Regarding your question,
***“Jesus does not come to him until days later after hearing the news. (could be due to the Jewish belief a soul did not leave the body until 3 days after death?)” ***
That could be why Jesus left Lazarus in the tomb for **four **days, to prove to the Jews that Lazarus was really dead and thus they could see it was a genuine miracle for Jesus to raise him to life.
Are you thinking of Lazarus? I think you may have been confused over which John, because this is all so new to you and you’re trying to take everything in, bless you!
In this case, when Jesus’ friend Lazarus died, Jesus didn’t arrive until Lazarus had been buried for four days, (nevertheless he had wept about the death. [John the evangelist and disciple, not the Baptist 11:35,36]) . Lazarus’ sisters weren’t happy about His delay but… Jesus elicits some expressions of faith from Lazarus’s sisters,
"Jesus put it plainly. “Lazarus is dead; and for your sake I am glad I was not there because now you will believe. But let us go to him” John 11: 15
John 11:42-44 tells of the restoration to life of Lazarus. "Jesus lifted up his eyes and said:
“Father I thank you for hearing my prayer,
I knew indeed that you always hear me,
but I speak
for the sake of all these who stand around me,
so that they may bekieve that it was you who sent me.”
When He had said this, he cried out in a loud voice, “Lazarus, here! Come out!” The dead man came out, his feet and hands bound with bands of stuff and a cloth round his face. Jesus said to them, “Unbind him, let him go free.”
As a consequence of this miracle, “Many of the Jews who had come to visit Mary Mary & Martha, L’s sisters] and had seen what he did believed in him…”
God bless you in your searching, Trishie