“The hour has come .... abandon the practice of Communion standing and in the hand”

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Sorry, all the deacons I know are working full time for their diocese. With the clergy shortage, I didn’t realize there would be any unemployed deacons.
We all work for the diocese/archdiocese. We are not paid. Our wages, out of this world, are in the after life. Believe me, I do work as a deacon. Those who hold paying jobs as I said are holding special paid positions with the diocese or parish. These are in a small minority. At least thats the way in my Archdiocese. We have over 300 deacons.
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Deacon Ed B
 
We all work for the diocese/archdiocese. We are not paid. Our wages, out of this world, are in the after life. Believe me, I do work as a deacon. Those who hold paying jobs as I said are holding special paid positions with the diocese or parish. These are in a small minority. At least thats the way in my Archdiocese. We have over 300 deacons.
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Deacon Ed B
We have seven religious in our parish. Three are priests. Two of the priests have physical disabilities. We have two permanent deacons. Our permanent deacons work very hard. They come from their place of employment and begin their evening from about 5:00 to about 10:00 every night and Saturdays and Sundays.

The lay friars do other ministries; therefore, the deacons pick up the clerical slack. They do not get a penny for it. They are very holy men with very holy wives and children who put up with this day in and day out.

I know that our lay friars and the laity appreciate them. Their presence in the parish allows the superior of the community to teach at the university, another friar to run the religious edcuation program, another friar to serve as a spiritual director and retreat master and the fourth lay friar to serve as the go to guy for the parish.

Our deacons are indispensable.

JR 🙂
 
Sorry, all the deacons I know are working full time for their diocese. With the clergy shortage, I didn’t realize there would be any unemployed deacons.
Again, all the deacons I know are working for their diocese and getting a salary. I personally don’t know anty who were working as deacons and not getting a salary from the diocese
 
We all work for the diocese/archdiocese. We are not paid. Our wages, out of this world, are in the after life. Believe me, I do work as a deacon. Those who hold paying jobs as I said are holding special paid positions with the diocese or parish. These are in a small minority. At least thats the way in my Archdiocese. We have over 300 deacons.
Prayers & blessings
Deacon Ed B
Again, I don’t know any deacons who are working in our diocese and not getting paid. We don’t have 300 deacons, but the ones we have are all on the payroll.
 
“What lovely kids…do you work?” :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
It’s off the subject, Easter Joy, but I am curious as to how you answer the above question. When I had little ones and someone asked me if I worked, I’d just smile and say, “No. I just spend the day watching the kids cook and clean for the family.”

(Feel free to use this one unless you’ve got something better.)
 
Again, I don’t know any deacons who are working in our diocese and not getting paid. We don’t have 300 deacons, but the ones we have are all on the payroll.
Do you actually go around asking them if they get paid? What about how about asking them how much money is in their bank account or how much they weigh?

JR 🙂
 
It’s off the subject, Easter Joy, but I am curious as to how you answer the above question. When I had little ones and someone asked me if I worked, I’d just smile and say, “No. I just spend the day watching the kids cook and clean for the family.”

(Feel free to use this one unless you’ve got something better.)
I usually just say “Well, yes, I work, but not at anything that brings home a paycheck.” Usually the reply is a quick “Well, yes! I guess I should have worded that differently!”

We all say things in a less-than-graceful way, sometimes. Still, none of the deacons, even the ones who get something like a paycheck, get anything like what someone bright enough to complete the required coursework for the diaconate could get in a regular job. Let’s not even get started on who paid their tuition (taking many unpaid hours, stretching over years) or even sometimes who gets to buy their dalmatics.

The diaconate is a sacred order of service, a truly sacrificial labor of love, even for the paid ones.
 
Again, I don’t know any deacons who are working in our diocese and not getting paid. We don’t have 300 deacons, but the ones we have are all on the payroll.
I am truly happy for them. What diocese are you in?
Prayers & blessings
Deacon Ed B
 
I am truly happy for them. What diocese are you in?
Prayers & blessings
Deacon Ed B
We have deacons that may be on the diocesan or parish payroll but not for being a deacon. They usually have other positions like DRE, business mananger or such things like that. The ones who work for the diocese are in human resources or finance, things like that. The only two I know paid as deacons are the two in charge of the diaconate and diaconate formation, but even that is part time and they have other jobs. No one gets paid for simply being a deacon in a parish. Some pastors might give a deacon a small stipend for weddings, baptisms or wakes but that is not required and up to the pastor.
 
Do you actually go around asking them if they get paid? What about how about asking them how much money is in their bank account or how much they weigh?

JR 🙂
No, I helped proofread some materials for the diaconate classes and I got to know all the deacons and their wives.
 
No, I helped proofread some materials for the diaconate classes and I got to know all the deacons and their wives.
With a due respect, I wouldn’t say this in public. You may put your diocese on the spot. You wouldn’t want to do this.

If the deacons and their wives shared this information it’s because you’re a friend. Information about income and salaries is usually very confidential.

As to permanent deacons receiving a salary, that is not the norm in the Church. Only those who hold a post receive a salary for that post.

Even priests and religious receive a salary for the post they hold, not for their ministry.

We have seven friars and two deacons. Our deacons are not on the payroll, because they are not parish staff, even though they are clergy. The superior of the house does not receive a salary, because he’s not parish staff, even though he’s the pastor’s superior. The pastor, the associates and two friars who are not priests, but work for the parish receive salaries that go to their community.

The two deacons and the two friars who are not on the staff receive no funds from the parish, even though they do ministry in the parish. Those are the rules of the US Bishop’s Conference.

If your bishop pays the deacons, that’s a diocesan policy, not a universal policy.

JR 🙂
 
With a due respect, I wouldn’t say this in public. You may put your diocese on the spot. You wouldn’t want to do this.

If the deacons and their wives shared this information it’s because you’re a friend. Information about income and salaries is usually very confidential.

As to permanent deacons receiving a salary, that is not the norm in the Church. Only those who hold a post receive a salary for that post.

Even priests and religious receive a salary for the post they hold, not for their ministry.

We have seven friars and two deacons. Our deacons are not on the payroll, because they are not parish staff, even though they are clergy. The superior of the house does not receive a salary, because he’s not parish staff, even though he’s the pastor’s superior. The pastor, the associates and two friars who are not priests, but work for the parish receive salaries that go to their community.

The two deacons and the two friars who are not on the staff receive no funds from the parish, even though they do ministry in the parish. Those are the rules of the US Bishop’s Conference.

If your bishop pays the deacons, that’s a diocesan policy, not a universal policy.

JR 🙂
Yes, our deacons are paid because they all have ministries (“posts”) funded by the diocese. Since I don’t know any deacons outside my diocese, I had no idea that other dioceses didn’t pay their deacons. I asked a deacon friend about this and he said it was perfectly fine for me to say that the deacons are paid because it is public knowledge within the diocese, and I am not putting anyone “on the spot”.
 
What did they do when kneeling was the custom for, oh, centuries?
What did they do BEFORE kneeling became a custom? (That’ll take some deep thinking)

I agree that it should be up to the people how they partake. I personally like to kneel, but not when taking communion. I always feel that I’m holding up the line. You see, I am old as dirt and my body just don’t move too good anymore. but I do love to kneel, and I do kneel at my seat on the kneeler, but even then I have to slide back in my seat a little. (the old knees)😊
 
What did they do BEFORE kneeling became a custom? (That’ll take some deep thinking)

I agree that it should be up to the people how they partake. I personally like to kneel, but not when taking communion. I always feel that I’m holding up the line. You see, I am old as dirt and my body just don’t move too good anymore. but I do love to kneel, and I do kneel at my seat on the kneeler, but even then I have to slide back in my seat a little. (the old knees)😊
My aunt, (64), who has a bad knee, said if Communion rails were re-introduced, she would kneel on the good knee and receive on the tongue even if it were painful. She said a little pain at Communion time would remind everyone of what Jesus had to go through. Maybe she has a good point.
 
My aunt, (64), who has a bad knee, said if Communion rails were re-introduced, she would kneel on the good knee and receive on the tongue even if it were painful. She said a little pain at Communion time would remind everyone of what Jesus had to go through. Maybe she has a good point.
Though I admire you aunt’s piety, this is not required. Auntie M has the right of it. The Church does not expect people to do what is medically or physically difficult. The Church expects us to be spiritually worthy of receiving the Eucharist.

The kneeling came into existence with the Roman and the Ottoman empires where kneeling to the monarch was a sign of submission. In other cultures, kneeling does not have the same meaning.

For example, the Chinese and Japanese of old spent a great deal of time on their knees, because their furniture was very close to the floor. The Arab Muslims and the Indian Hindus croutch as a sign of humity and submission.

If you look at pictures of Mother Teresa, sometimes she’s kneeling as would a European and sometimes she is crowtching is Hindus do. They are both sign of submission. I saw some videos of her and her sisters receiving communion in their motherhouse, they stand for that.

If you study the Franciscan tradition, the friars stand for communion, but kneel before the successor of St. Francis. The logic is simple. Francis was a European and the custom of the time when the order was founded was to kneel before the superior and call him Father. The American friars stand for communion, because we don’t have a culture of kneeling, except in church. For example, we do not kneel or bow for the President. It’s not a bad thing that we don’t. It’s simply not part of our culture.

Kneeling was brought to the USA by the Church. Catholics and other people of faith follow whatever the common usage is in their church.

In the end, kneeling or standing, the state of the heart and soul is the most important thing.

When St. Teresa founded the Discalced Caremelites they stood for communion, because they celebrated mass in a cubicle that was very small. They knelt in the corridor just outside and walked up to receive communion. But they held their community chapter (meeting) in a large room called a chapter room where Teresa sat on a chair and the nuns knelt on the stone floor in front of her as they proclaimed their faults in the chapter of faults.

As we can see, kneeling has been used in many different ways iin the history of the Church. Neither kneeling or standing guarrantees the state of the soul. Would that it were that simple.

JR 🙂
 
there is nothing mean and judgemental of recieving on the toungue. Recieving on the hand was started as an abuse and in my opinion is still an abuse. The only judgemental attitude I have seen has come from those people that scoffed at me because I recieve on the toungue.
Actually, dear heart, receiving on the hand was the original custom/tradition which *predated *receiving on the tongue.
The custom of receiving on the tongue started to stop the abuse that was taking place at the time. Some people were actually taking the host home and some were even desecrating it. So the custom of taking in the mouth was to make sure that the host was eaten right then so no abuse of the host could take place.
When the host is taken in the hand and the priest sees the person put it in his mouth, then that is certainly acceptable.
The story of taking on the tongue because it is “more reverent” really isn’t the real reason for it. Although, it is certainly acceptable also.👍
 
I don’t know, my priest says the only good way to receive communion IS in hand…🤷
 
If I can put another two cents worth in…

Customs are sometimes just plain ole good manners.

Actually, if you think about it, Kneeling is good AND standing is good. Kneeling does show honor but so does standing.

When an “high ranking official” comes in a room, most people stand in his “honor” (not worshipping, so don’t get me wrong) But just out of respect for his authority. Can you actually see the Pope coming in a room and NOBODY stands to greet him. That would be kinda bad. It is just a custom to greet people on eye level. It’s good manners, and shows honor and respect.

However, kneeling in front of the Pope and even kissing his ring shows him great honor and respect also.

Also, it is NOT “required” for a man to stand when a woman enters the room, but it really is a gentlemanly gesture and shows her honor. (Of course, this custom was Before women’s rights:rolleyes: )

Both ways can show honor and respect. However either way makes you feel, then do it. It is your conscience that you have to deal with. If you feel irreverent standing, then by all means kneel.
But lets not judge your neighbor for “not kneeling”. His conscience may require him to stand out of honor. God made us all different, but he gave us all a conscience.👍

(incidently, the “parable” about the man who couldn’t walk but asking Jesus for his blood, but Jesus DENYING him because his didn’t GET UP AND COME TO THE TABLE…I am sorry, but this is a little hard to believe that Jesus would do that. When He even broke the Jewish laws and healed people on Sundays???)
(This must HAVE been lost many many many years ago, and even sounds like it may have been written by JUDAS.)😦
 
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