- Explanation why he drops a piece of the host into the chalice?
- Even if the priest says"ME" in his eternal life prayer, Is he praying for himself only or does it include all of us there?
- The bread and wine are consecrated individually, to symbolize the physical separation, at death, of the Body of Christ from His Blood. Just after the Fraction Rite (when the priest breaks the primary host into smaller pieces, or just breaks his own host in half) the priest takes a small portion of a host and places it in the Chalice; as he does this, he says inaudibly: “May the mingling of the Body and Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ bring eternal life to us who receive it.” This action of mixing the two symbolizes the glorified Christ, in whom there is no separation of Body from Blood. This also reinforces the doctrine of concomitance, which means that in the Host is present both the Body and Blood (and Soul and Divinity) of the Lord, just as in the Chalice are present both the Body and Blood (and Soul and Divinity). This is opposed to the heretical notion that the Host is only the Body, and the Chalice contains only the Blood, and that you must therefore receive both the Host and the Chalice to have received the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ.
- The priest says his own prayers of preparation before he receives his communion; he says these silently (if he’s following the directions in the Missal). After he has dropped a portion of the Host into the Chalice, he prays either: “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of the living God, by the will of the Father and the work of the Holy Spirit your death brought life to the world. By your Holy Body and Blood free me from all my sins, and from every evil. Keep me faithful to your teaching, and never let me be parted from you.” or “Lord Jesus Christ, with faith in your love and mercy I eat your Body and drink your Blood. Let it not bring me condemnation, but health in mind and body.” Then he genuflects, and shows us the Host (and Chalice, optionally) and says “This is the Lamb of God…” Before he receives the Host himself, he prays silently “May the Body of Christ bring me to everlasting life.” Before he receives the Chalice himself, he prays silently “May the Blood of Christ bring me to everlasting life.”
There is no reason you (nor your children) should not pray something similar, silently to yourselves, before receiving the Body and Blood of our Lord. I would even encourage a private post-communion prayer along the lines of what the priest himself says: “Lord, may I receive these gifts in purity of heart. May they bring me healing and strength, now and for ever.”
If you would like to say more traditional translations/versions of these prayers, I offer these:
(Before receiving Communion…)
“O Lord Jesus Christ, Son of the living God, Who, by the will of the Father, with the co-operation of the Holy Spirit, have by Your death given life to the world, deliver me by this Your most sacred Body and Blood from all my sins and from every evil. Make me always cling to Your commandments, and never permit me to be separated from You. Who with the same God the Father and the Holy Spirit, live and reign, God, world without end. Amen.”
“Let not the partaking of Your Body, O Lord Jesus Christ, which I, though unworthy, presume to receive, turn to my judgment and condemnation; but through Your goodness, may it become a safeguard and an effective remedy, both of soul and body. Who live and reign with God the Father, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God, world without end. Amen.”
(While waiting to receive…)
“May the Body of our Lord Jesus Christ preserve my soul unto everlasting life.”
“May the Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ preserve my soul unto everlasting life.”
(After receiving…)
“What has passed our lips as food, O Lord, may we possess in purity of heart, that what is given to us in time, be our healing for eternity.”
“May Your Body, O Lord, which I have eaten, and Your Blood which I have drunk, cleave to my very soul, and grant that no trace of sin be found in me, whom these pure and holy mysteries have refreshed. Who live and reign, world without end. Amen.”