2008 Should Priest & Bishops be allowed to marry?

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If the Church says Priests must be celibrate, than so be it. She is infallible in faith and morals and I will not judge her descisons. I accept her teachings and I will continue to pray for all the Church.
The Church is not infallible in matters of discipline, or else discipline could never change.

She also doesn’t say that all priests must be celibate, just Latin Rite priests who ae not previously married converts, The are lots of married Catholic priests functioning today around the world. Even a few hundred in the Latin Church.

God Bless
 
The Church is not infallible in matters of discipline, or else discipline could never change.
Here I think I disagree. Disciplines are based in infallibilty in that they cannot contradict the faith. They can be changed but that does make them wrong.
 
Here I think I disagree. Disciplines are based in infallibilty in that they cannot contradict the faith. They can be changed but that does make them wrong.
This isn’t a matter of agreement or disagreement. Actually bilop is correct. Disciplines are not infallible. Only Church Doctrine on faith and morals are infallible…as you will see below.
You are correct in saying that disciplines cannot contradict the faith. And they don’t.

Theological Definition-from NEW ADVENT ENCYCLOPEDIA
The Vatican Council (Sess. iv, cap. iv) solemnly taught the doctrine of papal infallibility in the following terms:

“The Roman Pontiff, when he speaks ex cathedrâ, that is to say, when in the exercise of his office of pastor and teacher of all Christians he, in virtue of his supreme Apostolic authority, defines that a doctrine on faith or morals is to be held by the whole Church, by the assistance of God promised to him in the person of Blessed Peter, has that infallibility with which it was the will of Our Divine Redeemer that His Church should be furnished in defining a doctrine on faith or morals.”

CCC #88 The Church’s Magisterium exercises the authority it holds from Christ to the fullest extent when it defines dogmas, that is, when it proposes, in a form obliging the Christian people to an irrevocable adherence of faith, truths contained in divine Revelation or also when it proposes, in a definitive way, truths having a necessary connection with these.
 
I am always hesitant to answer this question, as a young man discerning to be a priest, but here are some thoughts I have.

Allowing married men to be ordained would definitely, in some ways, ease discernment, because for all intents and purposes, it is currently a this or that choice. Married or Ordained. I know that personally, I have struggled with the fact that I could not date, or have children, and that would be eased if I could do so.

However, it also would make discernment harder. I would have to be sure that I could support a family and the Church at the same time, which would be hard to figure out, as I wouldn’t know for sure till after I am ordained, and by then it is too late. So I would have to make a good decision.

It would put a lot of stress on the wife, first of, she would have to be a good Catholic for various reasons. She would have to be supportive of the priesthood, not be a cause for scandal, etc. What if she wanted a divorce, certainly this would reflect badly on both the priest and his wife. And to a minor extent, I do not think a spouse would make for a good confessor. Yes, they should tell everything to each other, but at the same time, that is a degree of openness that could be dangerous, especially regarding the breaking of the sacramental seal.

So do I think a married clergy would work? yes
Do I think it is better than a celibate one? no
If allowed, would I go out today and find me a wife before I got ordained? no, but you can bet it would be a lot longer before ordination, while I try to decide a whole bunch of new things.
 
I am always hesitant to answer this question, as a young man discerning to be a priest, but here are some thoughts I have.

Allowing married men to be ordained would definitely, in some ways, ease discernment, because for all intents and purposes, it is currently a this or that choice. Married or Ordained. I know that personally, I have struggled with the fact that I could not date, or have children, and that would be eased if I could do so.

However, it also would make discernment harder. I would have to be sure that I could support a family and the Church at the same time, which would be hard to figure out, as I wouldn’t know for sure till after I am ordained, and by then it is too late. So I would have to make a good decision.

It would put a lot of stress on the wife, first of, she would have to be a good Catholic for various reasons. She would have to be supportive of the priesthood, not be a cause for scandal, etc. What if she wanted a divorce, certainly this would reflect badly on both the priest and his wife. And to a minor extent, I do not think a spouse would make for a good confessor. Yes, they should tell everything to each other, but at the same time, that is a degree of openness that could be dangerous, especially regarding the breaking of the sacramental seal.

So do I think a married clergy would work? yes
Do I think it is better than a celibate one? no
If allowed, would I go out today and find me a wife before I got ordained? no, but you can bet it would be a lot longer before ordination, while I try to decide a whole bunch of new things.
I think you highlight a lot of important issues.

That’s why I think, if the Church decided to ordain married men in the Latin Church more frequently, they should restrict it to long-married men over a certain age. Say, over 50 and married at least 20 years.

God Bless
 
Here I think I disagree. Disciplines are based in infallibilty in that they cannot contradict the faith. They can be changed but that does make them wrong.
I don’t think I get this.

Can you cite an example of church discipline (outside of this present issue of clerical celibacy) which might help illustrate what you are trying to state here?

I don’t see how changing a discipline will contradict the faith.
 
This isn’t a matter of agreement or disagreement. Actually bilop is correct. Disciplines are not infallible. Only Church Doctrine on faith and morals are infallible…as you will see below.
You are correct in saying that disciplines cannot contradict the faith. And they don’t.

Theological Definition-from NEW ADVENT ENCYCLOPEDIA
The Vatican Council (Sess. iv, cap. iv) solemnly taught the doctrine of papal infallibility in the following terms:

“The Roman Pontiff, when he speaks ex cathedrâ, that is to say, when in the exercise of his office of pastor and teacher of all Christians he, in virtue of his supreme Apostolic authority, defines that a doctrine on faith or morals is to be held by the whole Church, by the assistance of God promised to him in the person of Blessed Peter, has that infallibility with which it was the will of Our Divine Redeemer that His Church should be furnished in defining a doctrine on faith or morals.”

CCC #88 The Church’s Magisterium exercises the authority it holds from Christ to the fullest extent when it defines dogmas, that is, when it proposes, in a form obliging the Christian people to an irrevocable adherence of faith, truths contained in divine Revelation or also when it proposes, in a definitive way, truths having a necessary connection with these.
None of that contradicts what I said.

From New Advent:
From the disciplinary infallibility of the Church, correctly understood as an indirect consequence of her doctrinal infallibility, it follows that she cannot be rightly accused of introducing into her discipline anything opposed to the Divine law
 
I think you highlight a lot of important issues.

That’s why I think, if the Church decided to ordain married men in the Latin Church more frequently, they should restrict it to long-married men over a certain age. Say, over 50 and married at least 20 years.

God Bless
This sounds reasonable to me.

One could also say 45 years with eight years service in the diaconate, or something like that.
 
I don’t think I get this.

Can you cite an example of church discipline (outside of this present issue of clerical celibacy) which might help illustrate what you are trying to state here?

I don’t see how changing a discipline will contradict the faith.
I was trying to say that changing disciplines as needed does not mean they are wrong in the first place. IOW, I cannot see how the Church is “mistaken” in a discipline like celibacy.
 
I was trying to say that changing disciplines as needed does not mean they are wrong in the first place. IOW, I cannot see how the Church is “mistaken” in a discipline like celibacy.
Correct. But it can’t be said the the discipline of celibacy (or any discipline) is in any way “infallible”, because it is not universal and can change.

A discipline must not contradict any infallible teaching, but is not in itself infallible.

God Bless
 
Correct. But it can’t be said the the discipline of celibacy (or any discipline) is in any way “infallible”, because it is not universal and can change.

A discipline must not contradict any infallible teaching, but is not in itself infallible.

God Bless
That is why I tried to word it carefully and gave the link to New Advent which explains it well… People tend to think disciplines are arbitrary and open for debate continually. Celibacy, as one issue, of course can be modified but it is in no way wrong or contrary to the faith.

And I do not see how any discipline can be wrong or contrary to the faith.
 
When an Anglican or Lutheran priest that is married converts and becomes a Catholic priest does he have to then take a vow of celibacy?
My parish had a married Lutheran priest for about 10 years and he and his wife never had any children after his ordination. Just curious.
 
I would think that if you restricted ordaining married men to those over 50 who have some financial stability, and limited their roles (can’t be pastors or bishops), you might be able to increase the number of total priests without destroying the special charism of the celibate priesthood.

**Let’s not forget something:

The English word “priest” comes from the Greek name for the second order of ministry: “presbyteros”, which means “older man.”

Why should age at ordination to the priesthood be an exclusion from being either a pastor or bishop? **
 
That is why I tried to word it carefully and gave the link to New Advent which explains it well… People tend to think disciplines are arbitrary and open for debate continually. Celibacy, as one issue, of course can be modified but it is in no way wrong or contrary to the faith.

And I do not see how any discipline can be wrong or contrary to the faith.
I don’t think most people seriously make such a claim, but I see your point now.

Usually such decisions are made for what seem to be the best of reasons at the time they are made. Sometimes the reasons for the decision are faded into the past, that does not automatically make them morally or spiritually wrong or suspect at all. It’s just that disciplines by their very nature are subject to revisiting.

Clerical celibacy is honored and cherished the world over. There is no where in the world, in any tradition or at any time in history when batchelors have been categorically banned from clerical orders. All traditions honor their celibate clergy. There is no question that the celibate state has survived and will survive from this time onward.

The only question then, is: 'will married men be allowed to join the clerical ranks? '. And actually, it’s a done deal. There are already many thousands of married priests in the Catholic churches, and many more thousands in the Orthodox churches. This cannot be undone.

These married men are confecting the Holy Eucharist daily around the world, and theologically we all recognize just one Divine Eucharist, the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass which is actually beyond time and space. So quite frankly all of these men, married or single; past, present (and future) are concelebrating with the Saints and the Heavenly Hosts and the Holy Spirit in The One Great and Pure Sacrifice. All this without regard to the marital state of the men standing in the flame.

Lord Master, the Father of mercies and God of every consolation, bless sanctify, guard, fortify, and strengthen those who have bowed their heads to You. Distance them from every evil deed. Lead them to every good work and make them worthy to partake without condemnation of these, Your most pure and life-giving Mysteries, for the forgiveness of sins and for the communion of the Holy Spirit.

By the grace, mercy, and love for us of Your only; begotten Son, with whom You are blessed, together with Your all; holy, good, and life-giving Spirit, now and forever and to the ages of ages.

I believe and confess, Lord, that You are truly the Christ, the Son of the living God, who came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the first. I also believe that this is truly Your pure Body and that this is truly Your precious Blood. Therefore, I pray to You, have mercy upon me, and forgive my transgressions, voluntary and involuntary, in word and deed, known and unknown. And make me worthy without condemnation to partake of Your pure Mysteries for the forgiveness of sins and for life eternal. Amen.


*How shall I, who am unworthy, enter into the splendor of Your saints? If I dare to enter into the bridal chamber, my clothing will accuse me, since it is not a wedding garment; and being bound up, I shall be cast out by the angels. In Your love, Lord, cleanse my soul and save me. *

Loving Master, Lord Jesus Christ, my God, let not these holy Gifts be to my condemnation because of my unworthiness, but for the cleansing and sanctification of soul and body and the pledge of the future life and kingdom. It is good for me to cling to God and to place in Him the hope of my salvation.

Receive me today, Son of God, as a partaker of Your mystical Supper. I will not reveal Your mystery to Your adversaries. Nor will I give You a kiss as did Judas. But as the thief I confess You: Lord, remember me in Your kingdom.
 
I would think that if you restricted ordaining married men to those over 50 who have some financial stability, and limited their roles (can’t be pastors or bishops), you might be able to increase the number of total priests without destroying the special charism of the celibate priesthood.

**Let’s not forget something:

The English word “priest” comes from the Greek name for the second order of ministry: “presbyteros”, which means “older man.”

Why should age at ordination to the priesthood be an exclusion from being either a pastor or bishop? **
I was not basing the restriction on age, but on marital status. If a single man is ordained late in life, there should be no restriction. I was just saying that the exclusion of the married priest from the espicopate should continue, and that, perhaps, they wouldn’t be chosen as pastors either.

God Bless
 
And I do not see how any discipline can be wrong or contrary to the faith.
There have certainly been disciplines that were unwise, whether at the time they were enacted or which became unwise over the course of time. Is an unwise choice a wrong choice? Yes and no, depending on what you mean by “wrong”.
 
I voted yes. It would attract more people to the clergy who are currently sitting on the sidelines.

In today’s modern world, legal safeguards of personal/church property could be easily resolved through a mandatory prenuptial agreement. The spouse would only have rights to the priest’s personal property, not the Church’s.
Hmmmm . . . more of your watered-down, cafeteria Catholicism, huh?

Tell me something,
as Tantum ergo already pointed out, Ordinatio Sacerdotalis declares that the “Church has no authority whatsoever to confer priestly ordination on women” and that "this judgment is to be definitively held by all the Church’s faithful".**
Which part of that do you not understand?
 
Hmmmm . . . more of your watered-down, cafeteria Catholicism, huh?

Tell me something, as Tantum ergo already pointed out, Ordinatio Sacerdotalis declares that the* “Church has no authority whatsoever to confer priestly ordination on women”* and that "this judgment is to be definitively held by all the Church’s faithful".
Which part of that do you not understand?
Women were not mentioned in this except for being the wife. The issue of women being ordained is ended. Thank God it won’t happen. I did ask when I started this thread that the issue of women not be used.
 
While I attest that I am no position as a Lay Catholic to say allowing priests and Bishops must occur, I am wondering if it may be something to at least consider.

I can see the benefits/reasons why there is celibacy for priests in the Latin rite and I can also see benefits/reasons for the allowing of priests/Bishops to marry.

Last year at our local library I read a book by Fr. Donald Cozzens titled : " Freeing Celibacy".

This book was an interesting view into the RCC Latin Rite mandated celibacy.

I suggest some of CAF readers may want to check it out for themselves.

Here are some thoughts based on a review of the book that summarized it pretty well :
He ( Fr. Cozzens) makes a distinction between charismatic celibates and legislated celibates. He says they are some people who are called to a life of celibacy. He does not like the idea of legislated celibacy, the kind of celibacy Latin priests are mandated to live.
He argues that if the Church is correct that every priest receives the grace of celibacy when called to the priesthood, then there is no need to legislate it because you cannot legislate gifts or graces.
The author argues that the practice of married clergy would not be a new thing in the Church as it has been part of the Church’s tradition for the first 1200 years of Christianity. He lists some Popes that were married and are saints. Examples include Pope St. Anastasius 1 (399-401) and Pope St. Hormisdas (514-523). “The number of married bishops and priests in the first twelve centuries is beyond reckoning.”
He mentions the fact that many Latin rite priests today are married. These are priests who upon “converting to Catholicism from ministerial roles in Anglican and protestant denominations, have been dispensed from the law of celibacy.”
It is important to note that he does not argue against celibacy through out the book, his argument is against legislated celibacy.
 
I don’t think I get this.

Can you cite an example of church discipline (outside of this present issue of clerical celibacy) which might help illustrate what you are trying to state here?

I don’t see how changing a discipline will contradict the faith.
The ordination of subdeacons.

The VII abolishment of the roman subdeaconate does not render the few roman subdeacons irrelevant nor even wrongly ordained. It just means there are no more, because current understanding is that they are not needed, and not properly being a major order, should have been installed, not ordained.

(note that all minor orders were ordained in the past; the minor orders of lector and acolyte are now installed and conferred, but not ordained.)
 
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