2nd Mass of the Day

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Hello

I have a question

I spoke to my confessor that I attend two masses in one day every week

He advised that the only obligation I had was to attend the 2nd Mass in its entirety… But recently the bus times have changed and I must leave after receiving communion

My question is Am I committing a Sin by leaving early??

Many thanks

A.
 
Couple things…
Is there not another bus after half an hour or so? Is the Mass so late that you are leaving to catch the last bus on your route?

It is not necessary to attend two Masses in any day. It is even less so to attend weekday Masses at all. In most areas of the world, the Sunday obligation has been dispensed, so speaking personally, I have no obligation to attend Mass, period.

Why do you attend two Masses in a day? It is not necessary for you to receive Holy Communion both times. It is perfectly acceptable and efficacious for you to receive once, while you attend the first Mass, and refrain from receiving again.

It is correct that a second reception of Holy Communion requires us to participate in the same Mass. So yes, I would say it is problematic for you to “dine and dash” to the bus. But it doesn’t have to be that way.

I would say that it is better for you to attend one Mass and receive then, than to attend one-and-a-half Masses and skip out before you can receive a blessing.
 
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Hello friend

Yes the bus I miss I must wait for a extra hour to catch the next one

I attend twice a day as a personal commitment to the Lord I like it that way

When you say ‘it need not be that way’ what do you mean??

Is your advice that I stay till the end??

Many thanks
 
The masses in question are weekday masses

Yes I get all of the first mass
 
Hello friend

Yes the bus I miss I must wait for a extra hour to catch the next one

I attend twice a day as a personal commitment to the Lord I like it that way

When you say ‘it need not be that way’ what do you mean??

Is your advice that I stay till the end??

Many thanks
So, in theory, you could wait less than an hour and catch another bus, after attending the second Mass in its entirety. That is one option for you. Is there a way you could occupy yourself in the neighborhood before the bus arrives? A restaurant, light a candle and pray in the church?

I feel as you may give scandal to others by skipping out early on the Mass, when they do not know you have already attended Mass that day, and they may not know that you have the inconvenience of a bus schedule to deal with.

You could choose to refrain from receiving Holy Communion, and therefore simply participate spiritually in the second Mass. I hope at least that you exit discreetly when you need to leave early.
 
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There are no coffee bars close by and I see your point

I sit discreetly at the back of the church and leave after communion
Iam aware how this looks and am conscience of it

I have spoken to at least 3 different priests, all of whom say I am not sinning and should not worry

Regards
A
 
My apologies
I suffer from scruples I think
Many thanks though for your responses
God bless you x
 
Hello

I have a question

I spoke to my confessor that I attend two masses in one day every week

He advised that the only obligation I had was to attend the 2nd Mass in its entirety… But recently the bus times have changed and I must leave after receiving communion

My question is Am I committing a Sin by leaving early??

Many thanks

A.
As a priest, I feel compelled to intervene in this thread.

First I want to praise, @AtourDOMAN for her devotion and generosity to undertake to attend two Masses in one day as a gift to the Lord. There is no prayer we can offer that is greater than the Eucharist.

Now to clarify the law. To receive Communion a second time, the second time needs to be in the body of a Mass at which you assisted at, from its beginning (hence your confessor saying “entirety”).

The reason for this is to prevent situations such as a person who receives Communion during a visit to the sick then going and receiving Communion by arriving at a Mass somewhere, arriving at the offertory or even only at the Communion. It is a privilege to received the Blessed Eucharist twice in one day and the Church’s legislation is to prevent the privilege from being trivialized.

And you fulfilled the legislation.

The prescription does not oblige you beyond the moment of the reception of the Eucharist…just as it would not if you suddenly became indisposed by an attack of asthma or tachycardia or you had to leave the church because your baby began to scream.

As a pastor of a parish I had many people over the years who, at weekday Masses, had to leave immediately after Communion…because of the brevity of their lunch hour, a meeting or appointment, a pressing commitment or obligation to name just a few.

As I said to them, I would say to you, @AtourDOMAN: you can make your thanksgiving for this second Communion in the intimacy of the Lord’s presence who is within you as you ride the bus.
Is there not another bus after half an hour or so? Is the Mass so late that you are leaving to catch the last bus on your route?
These questions are irrelevant.
It is not necessary to attend two Masses in any day. It is even less so to attend weekday Masses at all.
And these questions, and your comments that follow are completely inappropriate. The original poster has already said that she has spoken of this devotion with her confessor. It is not your affair.
So, in theory, you could wait less than an hour and catch another bus, after attending the second Mass in its entirety. That is one option for you. Is there a way you could occupy yourself in the neighborhood before the bus arrives? A restaurant, light a candle and pray in the church?
This is completely wrong…and very inappropriate on your part to make demands not at all in accord with the mind of the Church.

@AtourDOMAN: you should be at peace with what you are doing, the way you are doing it, and in taking the bus you need to take.

Rev.do Don Ruggero
 
Hi

There are no coffee bars close by and I see your point

I sit discreetly at the back of the church and leave after communion
Iam aware how this looks and am conscience of it

I have spoken to at least 3 different priests, all of whom say I am not sinning and should not worry

Regards
A
Well…indeed the other priests are right, of course. This is actually a very simple and straight forward matter.

But I correct one thing…discreetly stepping out of the church before Mass concludes neither looks bad nor is it bad. As a Presider at Eucharist, I see it all the time. Parents having to change their childrens diapers, people needing to go to the restroom, people needing the water fountain, people hit by bouts of sneezing or coughing (in pre-pandemic times), children becoming agitated. The reasons are myriad. It does not bother me in the least.

Frankly, people paying attention to such things and remarking it should mind their own business.
 
Rev Don

I love you so much
Thank you for clarifying everything
You’re the best

I shall be praying for you rest assured
Much love
Atour
 
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