4 a friend....Is talking dirty in the sack a sin or immoral?

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Hey my friend asked me if two married people talking dirty in bed is immoral. Any comments?
 
Dirty? If you are talking about truly dirty talk, sure. If it is simply sex talk that is no more appropriate in public than sex itself, I don’t see a problem with it.

I think people need to really think about their attitude toward sex before labeling the way they speak to one another in bed as ‘dirty.’
 
This question has been answered in the apogetics area but i do not recall his exact answer but it went something like if both parties are not offended then basically not immoral but please do not quote me, But I dont remember anything being wrong with it if both parties were ok with it…
 
It depends on the talk…is it dirty as in sexy? or dirty as in vulgar? Does it in any way disrespect the other spouse? If you would not feel comfortable knowing that God would hear it, don’t say it…He hears all.
What goes on between a couple in their married life, and particularily in their bedroom is very private. As long as both spouses are showing true love towards one another as well as following the teachings of our Church then whatever they choose to do in their intimate moments is fine.
Malia
 
hola,

if it is something “dirty” how could it be moral? i think it is important to remember that marriage does not create a barrier against lust… you can still (sinfully) lust after your spouse, contraception or sex that prevents pregnancy is lust, and is not allowed… to stay on the safe side I think your friend should not

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As in so much else, “dirty” has a lot to do with one’s personal comfort level, bodily acceptance, and the marital relationship. Mutual communication during intimacy is clearly appropriate and moral, as the needs of both partners need to be addressed. If, during intimacy, one of the spouses says something along the lines of “Please __________ my ____________,” I don’t think it’s necessary to use clinical / medical terms in making that request. I’m thinking that a loving couple has a “language of intimacy” they develop just as their physical relationship develops, and such expressions are mutually acceptable, confortable, and non-demeaning in and for that relationship.
 
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