4 Year Relationship Ended

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My girlfriend broke up with me 6 days ago; we were dating for almost 4 years. I’m 23, she’s 20. It’s hard for me to not post the whole story, but I’ll just say we had a loving, faithful relationship that became stale with guilt and doubt, and she needed time to individualize and I needed time to get my life back together (career, friends).

I ask God to give me strength and I tell him it’s hard, but I understand it’s all part of his plan for me. Before we broke up, I used to wake up every morning and say, “God, today I give you all my troubles.” I’ve still been saying it lately, but it’s hard because I know I can’t get over it easily. I tell God I love her and I feel we’re meant to be, but I don’t want to get my hopes up. I also pray asking that he helps her and keeps her safe.

I would greatly appreciate if you guys could include my ex and I in your prayers.
 
God bless you for your generosity and faith.

Lord there is much hurt and sadness when relationships break up and even more when it has lasted for some time.
Please give consolation and strength to jfLip,
and help him to mature in Your grace, and to move towards a wholesome future livid in Your love and will
 
Please Lord, help jfLip with the difficult situation that he is having to deal with now. Times of transition are always tough, especially the ending of a relationship, so please give him the strength he needs and the clarity to, little by little, understand a bit more why this is part of the plan that You have both for him and his ex-girlfriend.
 
Our Father, who art in heaven
hallowed be Thy name
Thy kingdom come
Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven
Give us this day our daily bread
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us
and lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit as it was in the beginning, is now, and will be forever, world without end. Amen
 
Thank you all it means so much. Any help that I can get is helpful.

Lord, please give me strength and courage to overcome the emotions I am feeling. Also, please guide Kris too. Though we’re not together right now, I am trying hard to accept that this is your plan. She’s a special person and I miss her a lot. Help me to take the right steps to finding peace and becoming a better person.
 
Hail Mary Full of Grace
The Lord is with thee
Blessed art thou among women
And blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary , Mother of God
Pray for us sinners
Now and at the hour of our death
AMEN
 
Prayers for you!

My husband & I dated for 5 years. We broke up for a couple of months at one point. We have now been married 21 years. Sometimes a break is what is needed.
 
MrsWendyW said:
Prayers for you!

My husband & I dated for 5 years. We broke up for a couple of months at one point. We have now been married 21 years. Sometimes a break is what is needed.
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Thanks MrsWendyW. Who broke up with who and why? If you don’t mind me asking.
 
Thanks DiggidyDog & 244Rocket; I appreciate it.

God, please continue to strengthen both myself and my ex. No matter what happens we (and everyone on here) are your children.
 
Hail Mary,full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women and
blessed is the Fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Guys I’m struggling with this so much :(. I’m trying to hard to be strong and I’m praying so much, but my heart just feels so much pain.
 
jfLip said:
Thanks MrsWendyW. Who broke up with who and why? If you don’t mind me asking.
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Hubby did. A lot of it was pressure from his family. He was 20 & I was 15. I think we were apart about 2-3 months.
 
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