43 Year Old Man Has A Girlfriend That Is A Senior In High School

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Scout:
I agree with Island Oak-which shows you just how twisted this is because she and I usually don’t agree on much-this situation is sick and twisted. I think you should be thrown into jail. :mad:

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I will take that endorsement with the same generosity I’m sure you intended!! 😃
 
I’m trying to imagine being 17 again and dating a 43 year old man. If I take out the part of the equation where my father would have rightly locked me in my room and had the man arrested, I’m left with the fact that I was still a teenager and was barely able to deal with the fact that I would be leaving all my friends and my home to go away to college. I can’t imagine being able to marry someone old enough to be my father and to be expected to not only give birth right away (and keep doing so for the next 20 years because my older husband wanted children into his 60s) but also to go to college at the same time. I would have had a nervous breakdown at the idea.

Perhaps this young lady is much more mature and intelligent and capable than I was (or than most 17-year-olds are). She’s not the one posting here so who knows. It would not be illegal for the two to get married. Would it be wise, or moral (since the man indicates that the main reason he wants to marry such a young girl is so that she can keep having babies when he is elderly)? I don’t know. Are the girl and her parents okay with this? Mine certainly would not have been, and based on the other responses here, they would not have been alone in their opinion.

To the original poster- something else to think about. My female cousin married a man 15 years older than herself- he was in his early 50s at the time. They went on to have three little girls. Because of his age, he is now retired, and my cousin works full time to make sure they can afford to help the girls with schooling later, and that they have health insurance, etc. The husband also has health problems due to his age that do not allow him to parent the way he would like. There is also the possibility (that increases each year) that he may not live to help my cousin finish raising the girls. Do you really want to saddle such a young girl with such things to worry about? My cousin was in her late thirties when she married, and had already finished her MBA so she could take care of herself and the girls if needed. Your intended wife is not likely to even complete her bachelor’s degree.
 
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dhgray:
You are either extreemly GOOD LOOKING or your are VERY RICH. OR, she is using you as a trophy to show off to her friends that she can get an older man. Why else would a teenager want anything to do with old farts like us. I could not imagine dating or marring anyone young enough to be my daughter.
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OK just for the sake of it let’s look at the positives of this relationship.

Albert stated that they are not in a sexual relationship. I assume this means that they will wait until marriage. Many girls marry at age 19. This is not unusual.

Albert is 43 so I am assuming he has an established career and has financial security. If this girl marries him she will be financially secure.

If they wait until he is 60 to have children, he will be retired and be able to stay at home with the kiddos while she continues to pursue her own career.

If he dies in his 70’s and has a hefty life insurance policy, she will still be young enough to enjoy a single life and have money to boot.

Hey, who are we to judge? Maybe this ain’t so bad for her after all. 😃
 
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jrabs:
and will be you be attending the Senior Prom with her?
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Hey, Albert, not a bad idea. Think about how helpful you could be to the prom comittee. You know how hard it is to get chaperones to these things? 😃
 
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and will be you be attending the Senior Prom with her?
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I’m not sure whether that last question merits a :crying: a :bigyikes: or :rotfl: :rotfl: .
If nothing else…it illustrates how profoundly disordered this union is!!!
 
Albert,

All kidding aside. If you really love this girl please break up with her. For your sake and hers, let her go to college. Look her up after she has graduated. If she still loves you, it was meant to be. You are the mature one here. Be mature about this and let this girl grow up a little.

You know the old saying about letting someone you love go. If they don’t come back it wasn’t meant to be. If they do come back love them for eternity.

Peace
 
Scout,

Why should I be thrown into jail? I have not comitted statuatory rape and I do not plan to either. Engaging in fornication is totally sick.

Albert Kopsho
 
Albert, ANY man who is 43 and dating an 18 year old is not a “man”. He is a Peter Pan and a dork. The reason he is dating an 18 year old is women closer to his age know better. They know that such a “man” is a dork, dweeb, and looser.
Tell you what, if my angel came home with a 43 year old man as a date I would give him two options #1. leave my daughter or #2, face casteration. 🙂 👍
 
Lisa4Catholics,

This is no game. I really wish to marry someone 25 years younger than I am so that I can have the last child when I am over 60 years old. My father knew a man in California who had a wife that was 25 years younger than the man. And look at contry music singer Loretta Lynn got married at age 13 to a man that was 10 or 12 years older. So a girl getting married at age 19 is no big deal and staying in college and raising a family at the same time if she does not take a full class schedule.

Albert Kopsho
 

This is no game. I really wish to marry someone 25 years younger than I am so that I can have the last child when I am over 60 years old.​

Go look for dentures and Geritol. Also, stop being such a dweeb and find someone closer to your age.
 
Lileyofthevalley,

I do not want a woman closer to my age because I want to have the last child over the age of 60.

Albert Kopsho
 
Albert Kopsho:
Lisa4Catholics,

This is no game. I really wish to marry someone 25 years younger than I am so that I can have the last child when I am over 60 years old. My father knew a man in California who had a wife that was 25 years younger than the man. And look at contry music singer Loretta Lynn got married at age 13 to a man that was 10 or 12 years older. So a girl getting married at age 19 is no big deal and staying in college and raising a family at the same time if she does not take a full class schedule.

Albert Kopsho
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What you propose is severely detrimental to this girl’s livelihood. Your main reason for getting married is that you want your last child when you’re 60? Aside from re-evaluating your motives, I’d urge you to consider that if what you want does happen, you’ll be 75 (or dead) when the child is 15, and your wife, then 50, will have a very large responsibility on her shoulders. You probably won’t be able to work or care for the child(ren); it will be very hard for you to even relate.

Is this really in the best interests of the girl? Is this what you think God wants?
 
Albert Kopsho:
Lisa4Catholics,

This is no game. I really wish to marry someone 25 years younger than I am so that I can have the last child when I am over 60 years old. My father knew a man in California who had a wife that was 25 years younger than the man. And look at contry music singer Loretta Lynn got married at age 13 to a man that was 10 or 12 years older. So a girl getting married at age 19 is no big deal and staying in college and raising a family at the same time if she does not take a full class schedule.
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It sure sounds like you are marrying this person just so you can have a child after 60. Is this fair? If you need a goal in life after 60, come to Colorado and climb the 14nrs or something. Your goal in marriage should be to love someone who can love you completely in return. I would question whether she knows what she is getting into with someone almost a generation apart. I question your motives of just coming onto a website and stating this especially when a seemingly big part of your explanation is to have a child after 60. What happens if she can’t have children? What happens if you can’t for some medical reason. What then?

John
 
Albert Kopsho:
Lileyofthevalley,

I do not want a woman closer to my age because I want to have the last child over the age of 60.

Albert Kopsho
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None of my business, so whap me upside the knot for this question – or just ignore it:

Why?
 
Albert, it’s because you can’t get anyone closer to your age. That’s why.

Oh by the way, ALBERT, what about adoption, ever hear of that? Or are you just “thinking” below your belt?
 
None of my business, so whap me upside the knot for this question – or just ignore it:

Why?​

True, it’s simply a question from a perve trying to justify his Peter Pan syndrome.
 
Albert Kopsho:
Lisa4Catholics,

So a girl getting married at age 19 is no big deal and staying in college and raising a family at the same time if she does not take a full class schedule.

Albert Kopsho
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ohhh - such selfish motives. All this just because of what YOU want?

Forgive me, but I completely missed the part about you helping to raise the family. So far you have mentioned two times that she would be raising the kids.
 
My question is this. If you are fine with this, it is not some story you concocted to stir up controversy, and you don’t care what anyone has to say about it, why post this thread at all? :confused:

That said, I hope you have a really good priest, in a really good parish, doing your pre-cana classes.
 
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