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AndyF
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Roxann:
This is a sad situation and I am sorry for you.
You are doing good. There’s usually a pattern to this inevitable result, and the obvious missing piece is dad. This is exactly where this boy counts on his parents for guidance, and his prime role model seems absent, either in indifference or physically.
Years ago Catholics married devout Catholics for a good reason, and children weren’t born unless a stable unital family was present. This is not to say it was perfect, but it was the best we could count on and for the most part it worked.
There are of course the bad examples of modern society such as permissible divorce and other available trappings of men’s desires rather than God’s now available in other “religions”. Compounding of sin through generations has made intrinsic wrong such has HS a right to suit these very desires.
When we instruct our children to go to mass, confession and observe other obligations, the fruits of these actions are not visible to the senses, but they heap on added graces to help us discern and turn away from satan’s presentation of these sins has delectable enticements. Who’s to say what the effect could have been if only one would have obeyed.
In a case like this you need special help and sacrifice on your part, but with God nothing is too far gone that it can’t be repaired. The measure of the amount you care will be watched closely. I would start a devotion to the Sacred heart, and to the Rosary daily. I would offer myself to some charitable cause in my spare time, never accepting payment, but a casual mention for the individual to remember me in his prayers. My own state will be friendship with God by the assurance of confession and mass.
If your daughter is indeed devout and receptive, suggest reading Sirach and Wisdom, and moral inspirations of Romans and Corinthians. Get her to TAKE THE BOY TO CHURCH with her, very important, here he will receive extra blessings.
Devotion information can be obtained through: www.theholyrosary.org
God will slowly turn the table for the better if you are sincere and determined, and you will ensure that you are receptive to signs of opportunity, being never argumentative, but always patient and open to receive these victims while they suffer the pangs of reversal by God’s effects sure to come (the battle between God and satan will become evident through them). You will know what is happening and that will give you added hope and happiness, and it will further strenghten your resolve.
Andy
This is a sad situation and I am sorry for you.
You are doing good. There’s usually a pattern to this inevitable result, and the obvious missing piece is dad. This is exactly where this boy counts on his parents for guidance, and his prime role model seems absent, either in indifference or physically.
Years ago Catholics married devout Catholics for a good reason, and children weren’t born unless a stable unital family was present. This is not to say it was perfect, but it was the best we could count on and for the most part it worked.
There are of course the bad examples of modern society such as permissible divorce and other available trappings of men’s desires rather than God’s now available in other “religions”. Compounding of sin through generations has made intrinsic wrong such has HS a right to suit these very desires.
When we instruct our children to go to mass, confession and observe other obligations, the fruits of these actions are not visible to the senses, but they heap on added graces to help us discern and turn away from satan’s presentation of these sins has delectable enticements. Who’s to say what the effect could have been if only one would have obeyed.
In a case like this you need special help and sacrifice on your part, but with God nothing is too far gone that it can’t be repaired. The measure of the amount you care will be watched closely. I would start a devotion to the Sacred heart, and to the Rosary daily. I would offer myself to some charitable cause in my spare time, never accepting payment, but a casual mention for the individual to remember me in his prayers. My own state will be friendship with God by the assurance of confession and mass.
If your daughter is indeed devout and receptive, suggest reading Sirach and Wisdom, and moral inspirations of Romans and Corinthians. Get her to TAKE THE BOY TO CHURCH with her, very important, here he will receive extra blessings.
Devotion information can be obtained through: www.theholyrosary.org
God will slowly turn the table for the better if you are sincere and determined, and you will ensure that you are receptive to signs of opportunity, being never argumentative, but always patient and open to receive these victims while they suffer the pangs of reversal by God’s effects sure to come (the battle between God and satan will become evident through them). You will know what is happening and that will give you added hope and happiness, and it will further strenghten your resolve.
Andy