A day in the life of a parish priest

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This is probably a fairly ignorant question, but what is the average day in the life of a priest like? I bet most Catholics do not know. If we look at the activities of a typical priest from midnight to midnight, what would we find in what they must do, and what they probably do?
 
I obviously can’t answer, but I can tell you this: my priest typically starts his day at 5:30 a.m. so he has an hour for prayer before the rest of the day hits. From there I can talk a bit more about his weekly schedule than his daily schedule.

He has office hours all day, though I don’t know what he does during those. I do know that he’s meeting with people a lot. (We have about 2200 members.) He celebrates Mass with us daily, and also celebrates Mass at various other places all week (nursing home, hospital, another parish where he is frequently called to help.)

He prepares a daily homily.

He has several meetings, from parish meetings to diocesan meetings to Catholic school meetings, and on and on.

He runs a weekly Bible study, often another type of study after it. He offers the RCIA class. (And he needs preparation time for all of this.) He has CCD classes to prepare for and teach. He offers confession. During Lent he offers even more.

There’s wakes and funerals, weddings, marriage prep, baptism prep…he does it all.

I’ve heard that he takes time with everybody individually at wakes and really helps them in their grief.

And this is just the part of his schedule that I’m aware of.

I know that when I have been in the chapel at night, he has been on the phone, returning calls. No, I can’t hear what he’s saying (so everything IS confidential) but I hear enough. That, and when I call, it’s usually evening before he can return the call.

I also know that it’s not unusual for him to finish his day well after 9 p.m, with very little time in between his morning start and his finish, except for meal times.

I thank God for our priests. I have been known to joke that it’s good he’s not married, because the only time he’d see his family would be in the confessional.
 
Not all priests are that busy. Our associate doesn’t do a lot in the parish and we hardly ever see him. Even the pastor hardly ever sees him but doesn’t know where he goes, and doesn’t ask. But I don’t think he is very typical of parish priests. Most of the priests I have worked with keep pretty busy but also schedule a lot of free time during the week.
 
We have three priests assigned to our parish. We have 3 daily Masses and 6 on Sunday, and confessions at least 3 times a week. Our priests teach all the RCIA classes, and work with the CCD program and school. They handle marriage prep, baptism prep (although the deacon does lots of this too, and work with Religious Education director on reconciliation, first communion, and confirmation prep. The conduct altar boy training, meet with youth group, Legion of Mary, KofC, seniors group, and some other parish groups. One of our parochial vicors is the Bishop’s MC and so is with him often, another teaches religion classes. Our parish also supports the nursing home and retirement community in our area. Those are all the sacramental things I can think of. The pastor, of course is also involved in business issues for the parish.

Of course, they do have free time. I know the pastor regularly gets a cup of coffee with a group of retired men after the 6:15 am Mass. Fast living, huh? 😛
 
Not all priests are that busy. Our associate doesn’t do a lot in the parish and we hardly ever see him. Even the pastor hardly ever sees him but doesn’t know where he goes, and doesn’t ask. But I don’t think he is very typical of parish priests. Most of the priests I have worked with keep pretty busy but also schedule a lot of free time during the week.
That sounds very much like it would be the exception rather than the rule. A classmate of mine was ordained last year and while he doesn’t spend all day at the parish where he is an associate pastor, he is quite literally all over the diocese offering masses, hearing confessions and a number of other duties that aren’t at his home parish. I would bet he spends much of his day driving.
 
That sounds very much like it would be the exception rather than the rule. A classmate of mine was ordained last year and while he doesn’t spend all day at the parish where he is an associate pastor, he is quite literally all over the diocese offering masses, hearing confessions and a number of other duties that aren’t at his home parish. I would bet he spends much of his day driving.
I hope it would be the exception. I just wonder what would happen if this guy ever became a pastor in a one priest parish where he would have to do a whole lot more. Right now he is not doing much which means he is not getting the experience he needs.
 
My parish priest starts his day with daily Mass, and if it’s a First Friday he starts the Eucharistic Adoration then hears confessions, and late afternoon does the Benediction. On any given day, he spends the day doing pastoral visits, meeting in person or on the phone with parishoners who need to talk to him, going downtown to various diocesan meetings, working on various administrative tasks, preparing his homily, and attending meetings for things like the Soup Kitchen, St. Vincent de Paul, etc, and much more that I’m sure I’m not aware of.

Depending on the day of the week, in the early evening he has Parish Council meeting, Finance Council meeting, Stewardship meeting, K of C meeting, evening Mass, or RCIA.

He tries to end his day by 9:00pm so that he has personal time for himself. Of course priests have time to workout, read, travel, do their hobbies, visit their family. They’re human and need down time just like everyone else.
 
Father V has a series on his blog called Monday Diary. It doesn’t describe the whole day, but does give you a good idea of some of the things that go on in the life of a priest. 👍
 
I obviously can’t answer, but I can tell you this: my priest typically starts his day at 5:30 a.m. so he has an hour for prayer before the rest of the day hits. From there I can talk a bit more about his weekly schedule than his daily schedule.

He has office hours all day, though I don’t know what he does during those. I do know that he’s meeting with people a lot. (We have about 2200 members.) He celebrates Mass with us daily, and also celebrates Mass at various other places all week (nursing home, hospital, another parish where he is frequently called to help.)

He prepares a daily homily.

He has several meetings, from parish meetings to diocesan meetings to Catholic school meetings, and on and on.

He runs a weekly Bible study, often another type of study after it. He offers the RCIA class. (And he needs preparation time for all of this.) He has CCD classes to prepare for and teach. He offers confession. During Lent he offers even more.

There’s wakes and funerals, weddings, marriage prep, baptism prep…he does it all.

I’ve heard that he takes time with everybody individually at wakes and really helps them in their grief.

And this is just the part of his schedule that I’m aware of.

I know that when I have been in the chapel at night, he has been on the phone, returning calls. No, I can’t hear what he’s saying (so everything IS confidential) but I hear enough. That, and when I call, it’s usually evening before he can return the call.

I also know that it’s not unusual for him to finish his day well after 9 p.m, with very little time in between his morning start and his finish, except for meal times.

I thank God for our priests. I have been known to joke that it’s good he’s not married, because the only time he’d see his family would be in the confessional.
Have priest rise at 5:30 a.m.?

Because I read sisters must rise at 5:30 a.m.! I hope beloved priests and sisters can sleep longer than that. They are praying for you and me.

:gopray:
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Have priest rise at 5:30 a.m.?

Because I read sisters must rise at 5:30 a.m.! I hope beloved priests and sisters can sleep longer than that. They are praying for you and me.

:gopray:
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A diocesan priest won’t have a required schedule to follow like a religious living in community will. We have a 6:30am Mass, so I’m sure one of our priests has to get up around 5:30 to make that. But I would imagine the other priests can sleep in a bit more depending on what else they have going on that day.
 
A diocesan priest won’t have a required schedule to follow like a religious living in community will. We have a 6:30am Mass, so I’m sure one of our priests has to get up around 5:30 to make that. But I would imagine the other priests can sleep in a bit more depending on what else they have going on that day.
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Oh! dear Karen! May God bless beloved priests and sisters!
 
Father V has a series on his blog called Monday Diary. It doesn’t describe the whole day, but does give you a good idea of some of the things that go on in the life of a priest. 👍
Ha ha that was an awesome webste. I so forwarded to by priest friends.
 
Could be depending on if the priest is reading his daily office and what time his first mass is. I know some priest alternate who says which morning mass so someone can get more sleep.
Oj! Very!

:gopray:
And may God bless beloved priests and brothers sisters!

:angel1:
 
I hope it would be the exception. I just wonder what would happen if this guy ever became a pastor in a one priest parish where he would have to do a whole lot more. Right now he is not doing much which means he is not getting the experience he needs.
Part of the reason I posted this is that our parish has gone from two very busy priests down to one. We have a full time deacon who helps fill in, but I imagine that there’s little idea in the parish how we’re wearing our priests down.

Not that we could do much about it. We don’t have a lot of priests here.
 
What are the things that all priests must do every day? I’ve heard it said, for example, that all priests must offer one Mass a day, even in there’s no one in attendance. Is that correct?

Do they have to say the Hours?
 
Have priest rise at 5:30 a.m.?

Because I read sisters must rise at 5:30 a.m.! I hope beloved priests and sisters can sleep longer than that. They are praying for you and me.

:gopray:
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Getting up at 5:30 am is not such a hardship if you went to bed at a reasonable hour the night before. 😉 Many people do it. We have a 6:15 am Mass, but our priests rotate who says that, so I assume they aren’t all up by 5 every morning. Don’t know, I have never asked! 😊
 
Have priest rise at 5:30 a.m.?

Because I read sisters must rise at 5:30 a.m.! I hope beloved priests and sisters can sleep longer than that. They are praying for you and me.

:gopray:
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My priest is not required to rise at 5:30, but he wants to start his day with an hour of prayer. He has shared with us that, for him, early morning works better than evening. So he gets up early to pray. He gives us a great example through this.
 
This makes me wonder - do priests fill out timesheets?

E.g.

Timesheet - Father Jones - week of 1/x/2005 to 1/y/2005

Day / Charge Code / Hours / Comment

Sunday: 44-3 (Mass) / 3 / Prepped and delivered AM Mass
Sunday: 53-5 (Confession) / 2 / 2 hours in confessional
Sunday: 21-9 (Homily writing) / 3 / Planned and wrote draft for next week’s homily
Monday : 53-5 (Confession) / 4 / serving in confessional
Monday: 22-2 (Evangelism) / 2 / Posted answers to questions on Catholic Answers forum
Monday 31-1 (Outreach) / 1 / Planned diocesan barbeque with St. Mark’s and Holy Trinity.
Monday: 44-3 (Mass) / 1 / Performed daily mass.
 
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