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Drawmack
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I, myself, was the most insidious type of pro-choicer. I was the pro-choicer who agreed with everything the pro-lifer said but would follow all that agreement with, “But those are my morals and I don’t have the right to force them on someone else.”Oh, and might I add some words of wisdom from personal experience? You see, I used to be an atheist, existentialist, feminist, pro choicer, radical, rebel, liberal. Oh, I loved science. I thought that was all I needed. But do you think I listened when any of the Christians I knew would give me the scientific truth about abortion during debate? Nope, sorry. It made not one dent in my armor. I would do the same thing that I mentioned above. Divert, distract, refuse to listen.
It was not until I had an abortion. Well, even after that I was quite satisfied with my “choice”…for a little while. I believe it was the prayers of those same Christians that softened my heart, unstopped my ears, and undulled my mind.
Just a warning, my friend. Yes, logic and science and reason can be the “nail in the coffin” for the arguments of those who are prochoice. Or for those who have not totally bought into their ideology. Approach the avidly pro choice with caution, kindness, and a cool head. But don’t expect instant success. Expect shrill voices, instead.
What finally, really, got me to thinking about this issue (which I changed my mind on before becoming a Christian) was when a pro-lifer started talking about parental rights. Being a man, it really chinked my armor to have someone point out that my rights do not, legally, begin until after the mother’s and that she can, unilaterally, make decisions concerning the life of our child which will affect the rest of my life. This is another gap in the legal system. Parental rights are not equal until after the birth of the child, why? Why is it not the man’s baby until it is born? What, magically, changes about the baby when it is born to make it become the father’s child?