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My college room mate is Lutheran, but her boyfriend and I are Catholic. Lately my room mate and her long distant boyfriend are getting serious in discussions of each others beliefs which result in late night “Bible verse battles,” and arguments about what is improtant and what is unnessecary. My room mate argues that Mother Mary and the saints in the Catholic Church are unnecessary because one must go or pray only through God. She believes that if Catholic practices and traditions aren’t in the Bible then we are wrong. She wants physical proof.

I want to remind her that we must continue to believe when we can’t see. I also want my two friends to go to counseling maybe with a vicor and a priest since these leaders have incredible knowledge. What else can I do? Thank you.

Jennifer
 
Does this bother you because your roommate is keeping you up late with her and her boyfriend’s “Bible verse battles”, or because you want her to see the truth? I’m not being sarcastic, I’m just not sure we can address the problem when we don’t know exactly what it is.
 
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jen5678:
My college room mate is Lutheran, but her boyfriend and I are Catholic. Lately my room mate and her long distant boyfriend are getting serious in discussions of each others beliefs which result in late night “Bible verse battles,” and arguments about what is improtant and what is unnessecary. My room mate argues that Mother Mary and the saints in the Catholic Church are unnecessary because one must go or pray only through God. She believes that if Catholic practices and traditions aren’t in the Bible then we are wrong. She wants physical proof.

I want to remind her that we must continue to believe when we can’t see. I also want my two friends to go to counseling maybe with a vicor and a priest since these leaders have incredible knowledge. What else can I do? Thank you.

Jennifer
Jennifer,

I’m not Catholic but I’d like to answer your post anyway.

Your roommate is right. Praying to anyone other than God is not only wrong, it is unbiblical. That’s the truth – take it or leave it. When we pray to God alone, we are following the example of Jesus, the Apostles,even the Psalms – all of which address God alone in prayer. When you pray to Mary and the saints, whose example are you following? Not Jesus’. Not the Apostles. You are following a tradition of men. All prayers in scripture are addressed to God and God alone. When you have this many instances of praying to God alone, and 0 instances of anyone praying to the living dead, it should raise some flags. In all of Paul’s epistles, not once does he mention the benefits of praying to the saints in heaven.

Your church will no doubt bring up Hebrews 12:1 which mentions a cloud of witnesses surrounding us and use it in defense of prayers to the saints. Yet, if you read it, you’ll find that this passage is not talking about a physical cloud of people physically surrounding us in heaven as if spectating, but of the faith of various Old Testament leaders (Abraham, Noah etc) which we are to emulate. Instead of directing us to pray to this “cloud of witnesses”, the writer of Hebrews says “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith…” Hebrews 12 is just one of many verses your church takes out of context to support this unbiblical practice.

As far as believing in what you can’t see – when Jesus said “Blessed are they who haven’t seen and yet believe”, he was speaking of Himself…not of Mary or the saints. Many believe aliens and UFOs exist without ever having seen one, I don’t think Jesus would praise them though. That is not commendable faith. There is faith in that which is true, and there is faith in that which is not true. Praying to anyone other than God is unbibilical. My advice to you would be to study the scriptures and see this for yourself.
 
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sparks:
I’m not Catholic but I’d like to answer your post anyway.

Your roommate is right. Praying to anyone other than God is not only wrong, it is unbiblical. That’s the truth – take it or leave it. .
Greetings!

I am Catholic. Praying to saints/Mary is not the same as praying to God. If you look at Catholic prayers to saints and to Mary, they all ask the saint or Mary to pray** for ** us.

I pray to God to tell him I know how awesome and wonderful He is and to acknowledge and thank Him for all of his blessings. I ask Him to help me with my daily affairs and to help me accept suffering with a joyful heart. To help me with my struggles with my faults. And, to lessen or take away the suffering of others.

I do pray to Mary and to certain saints, but this is not to acknowlege them as a god. I ask them to pray for me, because I know their prayers have merit in God’s eyes. Just as I ask others, including non-Catholics, to pray for me. My friends’ prayers have merit, so why can’t Mary’s or a saint?

I like to think about certain saints that I connect with, and I am inspired by their lives. It is so sad to ignore the example and inspiration of great lovers of Christ just because they have died physically. They haven’t died spiritually, so they can still be my friend and pray for me!!!

Orthodox Catholics knows there is a difference between praying to saints & Mary and praying to God. We use the same verb “pray” and that seems to hang up some non-Catholics. Just look at the prayer, “Hail Mary”. The first part is straight from the Bible, the second part is “Hail Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.” The 2nd part is asking her to pray for us, not step in and take the place of God.

One question that comes to my mind, is about statues. Catholics don’t pray to statues or icons. It is a reminder of a loved one, just as a family potrait of your family that you have taken at Sears and hang up above your fireplace so you can look at it and be reminded of your loved ones. Non-Catholics are ok with a big statue of Abraham Lincoln at our nation’s capital. They all know they aren’t worshipping Abe when they take their kids to see it. But, they wanted a monument to remember a great person. Well, the same with great saints, why shove them aside to be lost from our radar screen when they are still alive and actively praying for us and worshipping God with us?

Praying to saints is really asking them to worship God with you, just as you would go to a neighbor and say “pray with me awhile”.
 
My room mate and I both agree that I don’t worship or pray to the Saints, but I believe that we ask them to pray for us…she belives that “it is pointless to make any contact with the dead,” including Mary and the Saints. (Her words there) Jesus on the other hand rose from the dead, but do we not “assume” that Our Lady has fallen asleep and now is body and soul with Jesus Christ?

In response to my friend’s question about talking with the “dead” is it ok to ask those others who have passed on to also pray for us like we do the Saints? We also pray for them may they be in purgatory or Heaven.

I very much like the issue of the connotation of “praying.” It certainly has come out of context, and I will use it more wisely when asking for the saints to pray for me. I of course do not "acknowledge Mary and the Saints as God,"or as them “stepping in and taking the place of God.”

Thank you, and bless you all for clearing many things up.
 
Sparks:

Catholics have a wider understanding of supernatural relations than you think. Every Catholic who has their head on knows that WORSHIP is for GOD alone. PRAYING to the saints is not worshiping. It’s creating friendship and familial bonds with God’s household. Just because someone has passed this earth doesn’t mean they are out of contact.

We all have guardian angels—it would be a shame to never acknowledge their presence and invisible assistance all our lives and after death meet them. Same thing with the saints in Heaven that are in constant intercession for us.

As far as biblical…recall that Christ gave the story regarding the rich man asking the poor man who ended up in heaven to help his family turn from evil.

So my tip to you, go ahead, get to know the people whom are already there, God will not mind one bit.

in XT.
 
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jen5678:
My room mate and I both agree that I don’t worship or pray to the Saints, but I believe that we ask them to pray for us…she belives that “it is pointless to make any contact with the dead,” including Mary and the Saints. (Her words there) Jesus on the other hand rose from the dead, but do we not “assume” that Our Lady has fallen asleep and now is body and soul with Jesus Christ?
Here is a good article about the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin.
ewtn.com/library/ANSWERS/AOFMARY.HTM

I just started a Bible Study with my mother based on “Understanding the Scriptures” by Dr. Scott Hahn. This is a textbook for Catholic high school students and it is teriffic! (It’s published by www.theologicalforum.org) This is a beautiful, rich textbook that really explains Scripture and Catholic teaching.

Here is an example of Mary as the Ark of the Covenant from this textbook:
OT: “David arose and went” to bring up the ark. (2 Sm 6:2)
NT: “Mary arose and went” to visit Elizabeth (Lk 1:39)
OT: "David said, “How can the ark of the Lord come to me?” (2 Sm 6:9)
NT: "Elizabeth said, “And why is this granted me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?” (Lk 1:43)
OT: David was “leaping and dancing before the LORD.” (2 Sm 6:16)
NT: “The babe (John the Baptist in Elizabeth’s womb) in my womb leaped for joy.” (Lk: 1:44)
OT: “And the ark of the LORD remained in the house of Obededom the Gittite three months.” (2 Sm 6:11)
NT: “And Mary remained with her about 3 months.” (Lk 1:56)

What this shows is Mary being identified with the Ark of the Covenant from the Old Testament. A Protestant may expect the Bible to explicitly write “Mary is the Ark of the Covenant” before they will accept it. The same thing for the Assumption of Mary. It really is best to delve into Scripture with a sound, Catholic source that has the understanding of Tradition that was handed down by the apostles. So many churches that don’t “believe” in Tradition do in fact have their very own tradition. They have their own way of interpreting scripture and if someone doesn’t go along with it, that person will find another church or just start his own with that founder’s own interpretation. But, is this tradition the tradition of the apostles? (rhetorical question)

Don’t forget, Tradition is the lens that brings Scripture into focus. It’s not how we genuflect or some cultural practices. It truly is the lens to make clear the path to God. We have that lens with the Pope and the Magesterian that has protected and preserved the faith of the apostles from the time of Pentecost in the Upper Room. The apostles knew Mary, they took care of her, they passed on the beliefs about her through the Church. The bible didn’t come to being until a few centuries after the ressurection, it was the Church that held everything together and warded off all of the heresies and also at the early councils decided through the Holy Spirit which books to include in the canon of the Bible. They didn’t allow books such as the Gospel of St. Thomas or the Gospel of St. Mary Magdalene to be included because they didn’t meet the “apostolic roots and truth” rule. For this reason, we can accept Apostolic Tradition.
 
I’ll track it down if you really need it, but Scripture tells us that Our God is the God of the living not the dead. If someone dies, are they dead or alive in Christ?

We don’t pray or talk to the dead in any way.

God Bless,
Maria
 
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irena:
Greetings!

I am Catholic. Praying to saints/Mary is not the same as praying to God. If you look at Catholic prayers to saints and to Mary, they all ask the saint or Mary to pray** for ** us.

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Hi Irena, when I ask someone to pray for me “face to face”, I get their assurance that they will do so. How do you get the saints in heaven assurance that they will do so? If such a saint were to tell you that they will do so, they would be violating God’s clear instructions against speaking with the dead. If we are not allowed to have contact with the dead, how do we know they are praying for us for what you asked them to do so?

There shall not be found among you [any one] that maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, [or] that useth divination [or] an observer of times, or an enchanter, or a witch, Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For all that do these things [are] an abomination unto the LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD thy God doth drive them out from before thee.
Deuteronomy 18:10 (KJV)

Isaiah 8:19
When men tell you to consult mediums and spiritists, who whisper and mutter, should not a people inquire of their God? Why consult the dead on behalf of the living?
 
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jen5678:
My college room mate is Lutheran, but her boyfriend and I are Catholic. Lately my room mate and her long distant boyfriend are getting serious in discussions of each others beliefs which result in late night “Bible verse battles,” and arguments about what is improtant and what is unnessecary. My room mate argues that Mother Mary and the saints in the Catholic Church are unnecessary because one must go or pray only through God. She believes that if Catholic practices and traditions aren’t in the Bible then we are wrong. She wants physical proof.

I want to remind her that we must continue to believe when we can’t see. I also want my two friends to go to counseling maybe with a vicor and a priest since these leaders have incredible knowledge. What else can I do? Thank you.

Jennifer
Well, Jen, you may not be able to do anything. You can get some tracts and books from Catholic Answers to build your own knowledge up. Bible study and study of the Catechism will also be necessary to refute her inaccurate ideas. There are many tracts you can even download for free on the CA main website. You can give her books to read, have discussions, and yes pointing them to a priest is a good idea.

BUT, even with all that, she may be set in her ways. “Bible only” Christians are so far immersed in their error, they often literally cannot see the truth even when right in front of them.

I would also counsel her that she really needs to think about her “relationship” with her boyfriend if they cannot come to agreement on religion. There is a lifetime of heartache ahead for two people who are not equally yoked in their fiath life.
 
No doubt those in heaven are alive. Death is defined in James as seperation of body and spirit ( 2:26 ). Point is scripture does not indicate that they are directly aware of what is going on on earth with loved ones. It is possible that angels can make side trips to give them news of us. As for the Luke 16, Abraham said that they have Moses and the Prophets ( scriptures ) let them listen to them.

We do have a display of some praying in heaven under the throne, but that example does not indicate that they are aware of what is happening on earth.

Revelation 6:10
They called out in a loud voice, “How long, Sovereign Lord, holy and true, until you judge the inhabitants of the earth and avenge our blood?”

What we are told is,

John 14:2-3
In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.

Heaven is a place,

Isaiah 33:17
Thine eyes shall see the king in his beauty: they shall behold the land that is very far off.

Job 22:12
Is not God in the height of heaven? and behold the height of the stars, how high they are!

Psalm 113:5
Who is like unto the LORD our God, who dwelleth on high,

That that place called Heaven is very far away out of reach!!!

Psalm 33:13-14
The LORD looketh from heaven; he beholdeth all the sons of men.
From the place of his habitation he looketh upon all the inhabitants of the earth.

And, scripture only indicates that God can see the earth from there, which puts earth out of ear shot for creatures in heaven.
 
Daniel Marsh:
Hi Irena, when I ask someone to pray for me “face to face”, I get their assurance that they will do so. How do you get the saints in heaven assurance that they will do so? If such a saint were to tell you that they will do so, they would be violating God’s clear instructions against speaking with the dead. If we are not allowed to have contact with the dead, how do we know they are praying for us for what you asked them to do so?

There shall not be found among you [any one] that maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, [or] that useth divination [or] an observer of times, or an enchanter, or a witch, Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For all that do these things [are] an abomination unto the LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD thy God doth drive them out from before thee.
Deuteronomy 18:10 (KJV)

Isaiah 8:19
When men tell you to consult mediums and spiritists, who whisper and mutter, should not a people inquire of their God? Why consult the dead on behalf of the living?
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Because we have faith. Not only can we trust the Church who tells us it is good to ask the Church Triumphant to pray for us, but we can see in Scripture that the “cloud of witnesses” are presenting our Prayers to God.

You might wish to read this tract here in CA Library.
“No Contact with the dead”
Sometimes Fundamentalists object to asking our fellow Christians in heaven to pray for us by declaring that God has forbidden contact with the dead in passages such as Deuteronomy 18:10–11. In fact, he has not, because he at times has given it—for example, when he had Moses and Elijah appear with Christ to the disciples on the Mount of Transfiguration (Matt. 17:3). What God has forbidden is necromantic practice of conjuring up spirits. “There shall not be found among you any one who burns his son or his daughter as an offering, any one who practices divination, a soothsayer, or an augur, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a medium, or a wizard, or a necromancer. . . . For these nations, which you are about to dispossess, give heed to soothsayers and to diviners; but as for you, the Lord your God has not allowed you so to do. The Lord your God will raise up for you a prophet like me from among you, from your brethren—him you shall heed” (Deut. 18:10–15).
God thus indicates that one is not to conjure the dead for purposes of gaining information; one is to look to God’s prophets instead. Thus one is not to hold a seance. But anyone with an ounce of common sense can discern the vast qualitative difference between holding a seance to have the dead speak through you and a son humbly saying at his mother’s grave, “Mom, please pray to Jesus for me; I’m having a real problem right now.” The difference between the two is the difference between night and day. **One is an occult practice bent on getting secret information; the other is a humble request for a loved one to pray to God on one’s behalf.
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God Bless,
Maria
 
Daniel Marsh:
Hi Irena, when I ask someone to pray for me “face to face”, I get their assurance that they will do so. How do you get the saints in heaven assurance that they will do so? If such a saint were to tell you that they will do so, they would be violating God’s clear instructions against speaking with the dead. If we are not allowed to have contact with the dead, how do we know they are praying for us for what you asked them to do so?
Hi David… Again, we also have the faith the apostles handed down, in writing and in teaching. I have come across many non-Catholics who quote selections from the early Church Fathers, so clearly many non-Catholics recognize their authority. But, it seems to me they pick and choose what they quote.

Here is part of an article from EWTN that puts it better than I would be able to.

From:ewtn.com/faith/teachings/maryc4.htm

Fundamentalists challenge the Catholic practice of asking saints and angels to pray for us. But the Bible directs us to invoke those in heaven and ask them to pray with us.

Thus in Psalm 103, we pray, “Bless the Lord, O you his angels, you mighty ones who do his word, hearkening to the voice of his word! Bless the Lord, all his hosts, his ministers that do his will!” (Ps. 103:20-21). And in Psalm 148 we pray, “Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord from the heavens, praise him in the heights! Praise him, all his angels, praise him, all his host!” (Ps. 148:1-2)

Not only do those in heaven pray with us, they also pray for us. In Revelation, John sees that “the twenty-four elders [the leaders of the people of God in heaven] fell down before the Lamb, each holding a harp, and with golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints” (Rev. 5:8). Thus the saints in heaven offer to God the prayers of the saints on earth.

Angels do the same thing: “[An] angel came and stood at the altar [in heaven] with a golden censer; and he was given much incense to mingle with the prayers of all the saints upon the golden altar before the throne; and the smoke of the incense rose with the prayers of the saints from the hand of the angel before God” (Rev. 8:3-4).

Jesus himself warned us not to mess with small children because their guardian angels have guaranteed intercessory access to the Father: “See that you do not despise one of these little ones; for I tell you that in heaven their angels always see the face of my Father who is in heaven.” (Matt. 18:10).

Because he is the only God-man, Jesus is the only Mediator between man and God (1 Tim. 2:5), but this in no way means we cannot or should not ask our fellow Christians to pray with us and for us (1 Tim. 2:1-4), including those Christians in heaven, who have already had their sanctification completed, for “[t]he prayer of a righteous man has great power in its effects” (Jas. 5:16).

As the following passages show, the early Church Fathers clearly recognized the Biblical teaching that those in heaven can and do intercede for us, and they applied this teaching in their practice.

Hermas

“[The Shepherd said:] ‘But those who are weak and slothful in prayer, hesitate to ask anything from the Lord; but the Lord is full of compassion, and gives without fail to all who ask Him. But you, [Hermas,] having been strengthened by the holy angel [you saw], and having obtained from Him such intercession, and not being slothful, why do not you ask of the Lord understanding, and receive it from Him?’” (The Shepherd 3:5:4 [A.D. 80]).

Anonymous

“Hail, Mary!” (inscription at the Church of the Annunciation in Nazareth [A.D. 200]).

Clement of Alexandria

“In this way is he [the true Christian] always pure for prayer. He also prays in the society of angels, as being already of angelic rank, and he is never out of their holy keeping; and though he pray alone, he has the choir of the saints standing with him [in prayer]” (Miscellanies 7:12 [A.D. 208]).

Origen

“But not the high priest [Christ] alone prays for those who pray sincerely, but also the angels . . . as also the souls of the saints who have already fallen asleep” (Prayer 11 [A.D. 233]).

Cyprian of Carthage

“Let us remember one another in concord and unanimity. Let us on both sides [of death] always pray for one another. Let us relieve burdens and afflictions by mutual love, that if one of us, by the swiftness of divine condescension, shall go hence the first, our love may continue in the presence of the Lord, and our prayers for our brethren and sisters not cease in the presence of the Father’s mercy” (Letters 56 [60]:5 [A.D. 253]).
 
interresting, but not convinced.

I understand the “cloud of witnesses” from Hebrews 12 as referring to the examples of faithful in Hebrews 11. The chapter and verse divisions are not part of the orginal bible, but are imposed for convinence. Try reading Hebrews chapters 11 & 12 together and see what you think.
 
Someone mentioned it already, but if it were outright evil to “speak with the dead” in the sense Protestants always take it, then Jesus himself would be sinning by conversing with Moses and Elijah during the Transfiguration. I’ve had some interesting answers (evasions) to this point before, to say the least.
 
From cin.org/users/james/files/praying.htm

Q: How do you know the saints in heaven are praying for us?

A: Because the Bible tells us. One passage in which this is made clear is in 2 Maccabees, where Judah has had a vision in which St. Onias the high priest shows him Jeremiah the prophet, now in heaven, and we read:

“And Onias spoke, saying, ‘This is a man who loves the brethren and prays much for the people and the holy city, Jeremiah, the prophet of God’” (2 Maccabees 15:14).
 
jen5678,

I recommend the following (short) book by Lutheran pastor Rev. Charles Dickson, A Protestant Pastor Looks at Mary.

Lutheran Pastor Rev. Dickson asserts, "by upholding the importance of the blessed Virgin, Catholics do not minimize the importance of Christ, but actually … emphasize His mission. … When the Church ceases to focus on Mary, it loses its focus on Christ."

Rev Dickson notes that "the feast [of the Assumption] celebrated by the Church on August 15, dates from the fourth century, when numerous festivals honoring our Lady were common practice." These celebrations grew from beliefs that existed long before the feasts. According to Rev Dickson, “Interestingly enough, the sixteenth-century Protestant reformer, Martin Luther, included this feast on a list of liturgical celebrations that should, in his words, 'be observed among Evangelical Catholics as a sign of continuity and order.’”
 
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irena:
From cin.org/users/james/files/praying.htm

Q: How do you know the saints in heaven are praying for us?

A: Because the Bible tells us. One passage in which this is made clear is in 2 Maccabees, where Judah has had a vision in which St. Onias the high priest shows him Jeremiah the prophet, now in heaven, and we read:

“And Onias spoke, saying, ‘This is a man who loves the brethren and prays much for the people and the holy city, Jeremiah, the prophet of God’” (2 Maccabees 15:14).
Yeah, but Protestants took out Maccabees from their Bible though.
 
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