We’re going to have a difficult proceeding, then. You’re insisting on a particular definition of ‘absolute’ that doesn’t jive with the way that discussions of morality are framed up.
If you want to say “absolute
only means ‘devoid of any context whatsoever’,” then Vera is almost talking about what you’re asserting: this sounds a little bit like – especially in the context of Catholic moral theology – those things we’d call “intrinsic moral evils.” Catholics would assert that they exist, but not that they are the sum total of the categories in play. However, it all comes down to how you frame up the situation. (And, after all, isn’t that the real ‘trick’ in talking about morality? The way you frame it up tends to be an attempt to steer the conclusion, in my experience.)
So, you might ask “is killing morally wrong?” And a Catholic would reply, “that depends.” If the ‘killing’ we’re talking about is the intentional killing of a baby in the womb, then we’d reply “yes – always and in every circumstance!” We would call that an ‘intrinsic evil’ – that is, any circumstances that you add to that discussion do not change the answer, ever. (My guess is, though, that you’d object, "but, you’ve just added circumstances! That’s no longer an ‘absolute’ statement!)
My gut feel is that we could play a game in which
any situation we would raise could be abstracted by you sufficiently to make it seem like it’s no longer ‘absolute’ under your definition. So, by those rules, you’ve just constructed a tautology that’s pretty unhelpful to aid us in getting to a solution.
But, since we’ve seen that you have a particular definition of ‘absolute’, lemme ask the question: if you have problems with an ‘absolute’ morality (I would, too, if I defined ‘absolute’ the way you do!), do you have problems with an ‘objective’ morality? That seemed to be the direction you were headed with the ‘reasonable person’ approach, before it veered into this ‘devoid of circumstance’ tangent…