Thanks for sharing, I think this is one of the most underrated issues regarding this topic.
Men are raised today with the thought that it´s purely the woman´s choice to keep her baby, so they necessarily go better with some kind of coldness or general emotional absence when it comes to children and fertility.
Society doesn´t want men to be present in deciding to raise children, but afterwards women are disapointed because they aren´t that involved in child raising as them. Strange.
I never understood how it could only a woman´s choice when conception needs 2 people involved…and I know more than one secual man who told us in the privacy of a friend circle they can´t understand how they are called to simply watch a woman aborting their baby.
I won´t imagine how it must feel to be told by a man to abort, this is the other side. I´m glad this woman told us about this feel, maybe it reaches someone…