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MichaelR
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So…you think that things are okay so long as it stays behind closed doors?
It’s behind closed doors that bad things happen.
Don’t ask don’t tell. A similar concept really.
I think when things are ‘behind closed doors’ or in a ‘don’t ask don’t tell’ state of mind they become dangerous, because when things are hidden, bad or dangerous things can happen.
Much better that it’s out in the open, surely, so we can look after each other.
For example, if a young man was struggling with his sexuality, I’d much rather he knows he can do it in the open, with friends and organisations for support, so he can explore life and work out how he thinks and feels…rather than be so fearful that he be found out and punished for it by law, or treated like an outcast by people around him, or looked down upon as a person, because with all of that extra weight, how can he possibly sort his head out? It would also leave teenagers in that situation as vulnerable targets by abusers, for being someone on the outskirts of society. Or, as is sadly the case with those who feel they have to hide and hold all of their burden to themselves, it makes them far more likely to hurt themselves.
It’s behind closed doors that bad things happen.
Don’t ask don’t tell. A similar concept really.
I think when things are ‘behind closed doors’ or in a ‘don’t ask don’t tell’ state of mind they become dangerous, because when things are hidden, bad or dangerous things can happen.
Much better that it’s out in the open, surely, so we can look after each other.
For example, if a young man was struggling with his sexuality, I’d much rather he knows he can do it in the open, with friends and organisations for support, so he can explore life and work out how he thinks and feels…rather than be so fearful that he be found out and punished for it by law, or treated like an outcast by people around him, or looked down upon as a person, because with all of that extra weight, how can he possibly sort his head out? It would also leave teenagers in that situation as vulnerable targets by abusers, for being someone on the outskirts of society. Or, as is sadly the case with those who feel they have to hide and hold all of their burden to themselves, it makes them far more likely to hurt themselves.